I read the post further down about people not showing up for the wedding some you knew of before hand... some of you said you were able to fill the seats... How did you ask people? We are a few people under our 175 miniumum and people seems to be backing out every day (awesome!!). There are some people that I would like to invite but dont want it to seem like Im only inviting them so I can fill seats. So, the question is ... How did you ask? How did people feel about it? Did you give them an invite?