So, my college roommate, who I lived with for 3 years, has known she would be a bridesmaid since before I was even engaged. However, since my FI and I have been engaged, she and I have been on the outs several times, which is very unusual for us. I hate to fight with my friends, so after a few days of her giving me the cold shoulder and silent treatment I would do my best to make peace with her. This last time, I feel like she may have gone too far. We just moved out of a house we had been sharing. I did some laundry and hung it up to dry on hangers. I come back, and she tells me that she thought I didn't want the clothes (I don't know why, because they were very nice clothes) so she gave them away to the Salvation Army. This was a couple hundred dollars worth of clothing. I quickly went to the nearest store and managed to hunt up a bag of my clothes. When I got back to the house, she gave me more of my clothes that she said she had "found" and then proceeded to tell me that because I always hang my clothes up on a drying rack, it was logical to think I didn't want them, and so it was all my fault. I know it sounds outrageous, and my parents who were there helping me move were totally blown away by her unwillingness to even apologize. While I was frustrated by having to hunt up all my expensive clothes, I became furious at her attitude, especially considering that she gets very angry if any of her stuff is touched so I was always very respectful of that. She already has her bridesmaid dress and my wedding isn't until June, but honestly I am not willing to make peace with her after the way she behaved. I had decided that if she would apologize I would reconsider, but she has made no effort to do so and now I just don't care about making up with her. I don't really know how to handle the situation, so any advice would be wonderful.