So some things keep coming up while planning where my mom says, "We're putting it on for you, it's going to be this way" The most recent problem is that my fiance and I don't want there to be meat at the reception. We have recently become vegetarian and feel the food options (and rest of the day for that matter) should reflect who we are. My mom thinks that if there is no meat people will be offended and that they will think we're not feeding them enough or being cheap. I have TONS of food planned, it just doesn't involve meat~ I even avoided meat substitutes so no one gets freaked out... How do I address this problem and the others that have come up? I know she wants to put on a nice day for me, my fiance, and our guests, but shouldn't we have the ultimate say...? Thanks!