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Mr. and Mrs. or Dr. and Mrs.??

My fiance has his phd so his title is technically "Dr." but I feel so funny being introduced that way.  I've never been to a wedding where one of the people has a title other than Mr. or Mrs. so I don't know how it is done.  What would you guys do?
Erin and Kyle ~~~ November 7, 2009

Re: Mr. and Mrs. or Dr. and Mrs.??

  • surfbetty530surfbetty530 member
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    edited December 2011
    I'd personally have them say Mr. and Mrs...I'd leave Dr. for your mail and such!
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  • edited December 2011
    Dr. and Mrs.! But you should really ask FI what he wants some people don;t like to be referred to as Dr. even if they are. We have a friend with multiple Phds however he perfers to go by Mr. not Dr.
  • edited December 2011
    I like Mr. and Mrs. but I totally agree that if he wants Dr. (he did work hard for the dang title : D ) then go for it!
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  • Kristin789Kristin789 member
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    edited December 2011
    >>I've never been to a wedding where one of the people has a title other than Mr. or Mrs. I've been teaching at the college level for about a million years and I can't think of any of my male colleagues who did NOT get introduced as Dr. and Mrs.
  • edited December 2011
    Its your own personal preference, but I say def. go with DR. - he earned that title and I think it should be used whenever possible!!but probably your best bet is to ask him which he prefers and go with that.
  • edited December 2011
    One of my friends got married shortly after her now husband earned his PhD.  He worked so hard to get it that they were proud to announce them as Dr. and Mrs.  Everyone cheered because they knew how important it was to both of them.
  • dogluver315dogluver315 member
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    edited December 2011
    I think it depends on what your FI wants. Etiquette says the "Dr." title is for medical doctors while PhD holders should go by Mr. I personally think it's whatever you want.
  • edited December 2011
    My fiance also has a Doctorate and we will be introduced as Dr. and Mrs. That is his title, just because it is not from a medical school doesn't devalue it. He's a college profesor so his students and colleagues also refer to him as Dr. so it doesn't seem weird to me.
  • edited December 2011
    I think we are going to go with the Dr. instead of Mr. I asked FI about it and he prefers Dr. He's a college professor and he was in college for 9 years to get it so I guess he deserves it.  Thanks for all the opinions!
    Erin and Kyle ~~~ November 7, 2009
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