I had my 1st real fight with FI last night. We found out yesterday that our reception venue had been double booked and we were the ones being bumped because it was at a private country club, the other person is a member we're not and supposedly we were booked 2nd. I was totally upset about it . We've spent months planning, it was a place my Mom actually liked (she's crazy picky and that is a big deal to me that I got her approval of my choice) Our invitations are printed and we chose hotels for our guests because of the location to the reception site.He told me he didn't see what the big deal was. That I was making too much out of it and that he really didn't care that much about the reception or what anyone felt or thought about it. I asked him if that included me since I'm the one who was dissapointed and he said "yes, you're making a big deal out of nothing". Ummm.... nothing ?! We seriously went to 18 different places, he told me this was the place he liked the best and it fit in our budget that he set. I've never gone without talking to him, kissing him good-bye in the morning or feeling hurt by him. I hate this !