When I'm feeling stressed and can't fathom the thought of leaving my nuclear family and American lifestyle for a house with my in-laws and beloved BF, I read this woman's blog. She moved from Australia to live in Mumbai with her husband - she does her best to handle all the traditions and even refrains from referring to her husband as his name. She lives an Indian lifestyle while maintaining her sense of self, love of wine, meat, and western preferences and records it all in this blog. If she can do all this, we can surely handle in-law relations and culture clashes!
http://www.whiteindianhousewife.com/