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I AM FURIOUS

FI is on his way to his dad's (1.5 hours from where he lives, 3 hours from me). Dumbass didn't charge his cell nor take a car charger. I don't hear from him for a couple hours and start worrying. He finally texts me a half a message. A little while later, he calls from a random number. He's stranded on the side of the road. His tire went flat and he had enough charge to call his dad and AAA. So his dad was on standby and AAA came and changed his tire. He gets farther down the road and the spare tire blew out! He told me to call his mom to get his dad's number (he knows my number by heart, but not his dads). His mom was in a freaking movie and I couldn't get a hold of her. I called cousins and aunts and everyone else I could think of. No one had dad's number. Finally got the number and called dad. He is soooo angry and he took it out on me too!Dad is on his way to pick him up and he is so furious. So am I. How are you going to leave on a road trip with out a charged phone?!?!?!
"In the old days my ass would be in your back yard picking cotton, so excuse me if I don't put much stock in how f*cking awesome the old days were." -Nuggs
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  • Why does he not keep his car charger in his car?
  • Boys, that's who.
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  • I don't know, Navy, why don't you tell me? DOES NOT COMPUTE.
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  • You need to punch him.  That is unfortunate, but careless of him. 
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  • boys....tisk tisk I'd be piissed too
  • They are missing some vital brain cells I think.
    "In the old days my ass would be in your back yard picking cotton, so excuse me if I don't put much stock in how f*cking awesome the old days were." -Nuggs
  • That sucks! At least he KNOWS your number.  FI doesn't know mine because he has it stored in his phone.  yeah, well, Joshua, you let it die almost every day.  What happens if it's dead and you end up needing me...learn my number! boys are stupid.
  • I'll have to fess up and say, I'd be the one doing something like this. DH is WAY more responsible about things like this when it comes to traveling than I am.But, I'll ask for directions.....Shame on Mr. LVB-tobe....
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  • Men should carry a sign that reads "I was born with a penis, therefore I am stupid"
  • I would suggest a throat punch, but I wouldn't want your FI to call the cops on me.Sorry boys are dumb.  :(
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  • katie - he seriously lets it die every day?  You think a tech guy would be more aware of that!
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  • Ditto absolutely everything that Missy just said.
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  • Well "every" day is probably an exaggeration, but he comes home after work many times asking to use my phone charger because his is either dead, or on the verge.It's so frustrating.
  • My mom is like that.  She doesn't charge her phone until it starts beeping.  So annoying!
  • I just can't believe in this age of technology that things like this can happen. I just can't fathom it. And I think I will make that sign for him. He sure needs it.
    "In the old days my ass would be in your back yard picking cotton, so excuse me if I don't put much stock in how f*cking awesome the old days were." -Nuggs
  • I'm willing to bet that he will never make this mistake again. :)
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  • Tape his car charger into his car when he gets home so he can't forget it next time.
  • I bet not. But now I'm talking to his mom and she's bad mouthing him. Not happy about that either. GRRRR
    "In the old days my ass would be in your back yard picking cotton, so excuse me if I don't put much stock in how f*cking awesome the old days were." -Nuggs
  • I'm going to throw that fuccking car charger in his face the next time I see him.
    "In the old days my ass would be in your back yard picking cotton, so excuse me if I don't put much stock in how f*cking awesome the old days were." -Nuggs
  • Yes, DH has bought a car charger for me that doesn't leave the car; a charger for the computer that stays only at work; plus the wall charger that we take on trips. Now, he HAS had his battery go low at work, and the Miata won't charge it if the car isn't running, so before he switched phones, on my way home I'd stop and switch batteries with him (after charging mine, of course).It was so nice to be in a relationship with a responsible person, I kind of 'surrendered' some of that for myself and let him take care of me. I'll admit, it's kind of nice.
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  • I am a little irked that people blow off being irresponsible or not thinking things through as a "guy thing." It sounds apologetic or an excuse, which clearly you're mad enough that you don't need the standard gender excuse. Don't you guys get mad when men are like, "You're mad just because you're a girl and are hormonal."Same thing. Stupidity =/= Boy.
  • I agree with Bippy. I'd be far more likely to do something like this than FI would. I think it has nothing to do with gender.
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  • Excuse me for being piised at him. Ok, HE'S irresponsible as a person. Sorry.
    "In the old days my ass would be in your back yard picking cotton, so excuse me if I don't put much stock in how f*cking awesome the old days were." -Nuggs
  • Eh not saying that you shouldn't be pissed. I'd be pissed too. But I don't think it has anything to do specifically with him being a man as a couple other PP have said.
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  • You're right, that response was uncalled for. I'm just even more upset because his mom spent 20 min telling me how irresponsible he is and how he's never going to grow up and it's going to hurt our marriage. That I am just young and in love and don't see it. No, I see it, but I'm sorry that him leaving his clothes on the floor don't bother me like it does you. I'm fighting being upset with him with defending him. Yeesh. Sorry Bippy, that was uncalled for.
    "In the old days my ass would be in your back yard picking cotton, so excuse me if I don't put much stock in how f*cking awesome the old days were." -Nuggs
  • Woah. She really did not need to be saying all those things to you. A freaking car charger/flat tire doesn't have a damn thing to do with your marriage. Hell if it did, FI and I would be doomed.
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  • Deep breath love. Call me if you need me, I'm just being lazy at the hotel.
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  • It's okay, I was pointing it out to other posters, not you. You better believe I'd be pissed at H (and I do get pissed) if he did something bone headed like that. But people going, "Oh, it's OK, it's just because he's a boy." That's just writing it off, excusing it, or making apologies for.
  • Yeah, mama needs to back off. Or call the dead cell phone and leave a message for him.
  • She's really passive agressive like that. She kept saying "I don't want to bad mouth him to you, but..."I tried my best to point out his positives (of which there are many), but all she could do was look at the negatives. I KNOW things aren't perfect with him. But I'm going into this marriage with my eyes wide open. I can't get mad at him for being sloppy because I am too. It's a flaw in both of us. We deal just fine.
    "In the old days my ass would be in your back yard picking cotton, so excuse me if I don't put much stock in how f*cking awesome the old days were." -Nuggs
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