My Step-daughter will becoming engaged soon. She lives with us. Her mother lives out of state. We are paying for her college and will be paying for the wedding. Her mother has very little to do with her. However, she will want to be front and center for the wedding. And to avoid conflict my step daughter will go along with this. Where does that leave me? I certainly don't want to be doing all the work and then get shoved into the back ground as happened at my step sons wedding.