You clearly don't like it here, so save us all time of trying to help you out and leave.
As someone who writes this:
I just think it almost makes new people not want to join either one BECAUSE OF THE KNOT! im sorry and i have tried not to say one way or the other but all day i have been nothing short of "talked down to" i received 9 total posts that really had any advice on it, other than that it was rude or telling me to GOOGLE. I asked 3 questions today...thats it and on question 3 i got no advice other than GOOGLE IT! its very frustrating and makes people feel dumb and like they are not wanted on the boards
You are clearly trying to prove a point. Please don't waste anyone's time any more. We have no problem trying to help people, but don't further the divide between the sites. NO ONE appreciates it, especially the people who run both sites. I wouldn't be surprised if you were emailed or banned because of all these issues and cross posting.
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