Okay so i was chatting with my sister about general wedding stuff, and i dont remember who first brought up the subject of wedding rings but i said i havent really thought about it yet, im not sure what i want. And she tells me that when she gets married she wants to make them by hand with whoever her FI will be. To which i reply ooh thats a really good idea! She then tells me that im not allowed to do that because its her idea.
We get into an argument, i try to ask her why it matters? What if i had come up with that idea on my own, would she still be pissed off? She tells me i wouldnt have thought of it and she has wanted to do that for years. But how can she know i wouldnt have thought of it, i may have. Would she still be pissed off if she got married first and i then did the same thing after her?
She likened it to her saying she wants to name her child a certain name and then i have a child first and name it that. I dont see it to be anything like that.
What do you all think? Is she being unreasonable or would you be as annoyed?