My first shower is next Saturday. I don't know all the details, but I'm pretty positive that it is being held at my MOH's aunt's house. She is, of course, invited to the wedding, along with her daughter, and my MOH's mom and grandmother. To make a long story short, all of these ladies were a big part of my childhood growing up...I had sleepovers at their houses, etc. I believe the main hostesses for the party are my MOH and her aunt, since it's at their house, but I think her cousin and her mom are also helping out with food. I think my mom has also been involved. So, my question is...who the heck do I give a gift to? All 5 of them? And what do I give? I was thinking I'd give them all a bottle of wine. When do I give the gifts? At the end of the shower? After the shower? I really have no clue! lol