Well my mom and MOH intended the date to remain a surprise but FI slipped and now I know my bridal shower is this weekend. I still don't know exactly which day or where it is but I'm not going to lie, I'm kinda bummed I know.
FI wasn't thinking and I think he feels bad he ruined the surprise. (There was some family drama, he was annoyed with my mother because of something she said about his mother and he let it slip...) Ugh, oh well... I just feel bad because I know mom and MOH were excited to surprise me and they've done an excellent job keeping the date secret up until now. I think Mom's a little bummed too but she also knows she sort of opened the door when she said what she said about FMIL.
I'm trying to let it go and just get excited that it's this weekend. At least now, I can figure out what exactly I want to wear to the shower and be a little more prepared. Still, I'm bummed. =/ FI is really stressed with work and I think he just didn't understand that this was supposed to be a special day for me (something I've really never had) and that it meant and still does mean a lot to me that my mom is doing this for me. Meh...
Re: Bridal Shower Suprise Slip Up
Also funny story - I told FMIL that I did know about the shower and she said she was relieved because she was afraid to give it away. They have a calendar on their fridge and she wrote 'shower' on the date but thought that maybe she shouldn't have done that and so to fix it she made rain drops around it so if i saw it, I would think it meant rain shower. lol she is a kook!
So now, I'm cleaning the house like a crazy person before the in-laws arrive and getting super excited. I still have no idea where the shower is being held so that'll be a fun surprise and as pp said I don't know who is coming either! So yay! Fun stuff for sure!
Thanks again, everyone!