So I was curious what everyones views are on this...
I am due to marry in December, the first party of december actually. I have not had a Bachelorette party or shower as of now..
In my party i have 5 girls 4 underage, and one of age plus myself of age.
1 member will have far away reletives in town this weekend and will not be joiing (hints the only other of age girl)
I recieved via e-mail 2 wks ago that my bachelorette party would be 2 wks before the wedding. Details go dinner first including everyone!! after that the two youngest will be returned home.. the next sep will be the remaining myself and 2 underage will go to the LOCAL bar in town where everyone knows everyone and everything about you to do whatever. However, these to have NO money and work NO job so who will pay?? ME. Also they will not be able to dink their selves I will be ALONE!
Is it me being selfish or rude or completely true when i say basically im upset with this.. I dont understand why anyone in the bachelorette party would A want to go somewhere LOCAL like my town for instance when not ever a half hour away is a nice plce to do the same thing and B do something like that and make the bride pay??
I have asked to switch weekends and the one planning said absolutely not it fits her schedue so she is leaving it the same..
I am at my witts ends with all of this and am sad so say ready for my wedding to be over!!
Please answer to me truthfully I need some sort of pick me up in this situation.