So my fiance and I are having a really small wedding party because we arent having a huge wedding (and he doenst have a lot of male people to stand as a groomsmen)
I havent asked my second bridesmaid yet but I have asked my moh which is my fiances sister
I asked her bcs no one seemed to be excited for the wedding but her and she was taking initiative with all this planning stuff - giving me lots of ideas and such
This lasted about a week. Basically her spouse got upset that brandyn didnt ask him to be in the wedding and it became a huge drama fest - lots of issues regarding her spouse and my fiance started arising (money issues). I'm not going to get into anything but basically her spouse has screwed my fiance over a lot and now its allcoming to blows --- her spouse "cut us out" because my fiance finally stood up to him
Brandyns sister really doesnt have anything to do with us now- she really hasnt talked to me since my birthday .... 2 months ago and its just very stupid and frustrating because her spouse has been causing all this issues with her brother (im to blame apparenlty) and yea ... stupid bull****
I regret asking her to be my moh and would much rather choose one of my best friends or close cousins and now im stuck
also a month ago my fiances mom got mad at me because his sister apparenlty felt "thrown out" of the wedding and it just gets so ridiculous because nothing was ever said to me!!! i have tried to talk to her a couple times and once got ignored and the other time got a response that lead to nothing . at first I was kind of like well i asked her so just gotta stick with it but now after all this drama with being "cut out" and her not talking to us ... i feel i have every right to do tell her im choosing someone else. : /
i wouldnt do anything without my fiances permission either as this is his family but ugh this all just doesnt feel right at all
Sorry this post is so long