Hi! One of my bridesmaid has been my friend since 6th grade. As we get older she has been getting more unreliable. Now with my wedding day 9 days away. She finally tells me that she will not be able to throw the bridal shower like she told me she would and that she will be leaving right after the ceremony because she decided to move the day of my wedding. I have tried to been reasonable. We have a strict budget and i left my girls pick out their dresses (it just had to be the same the color) and I paid for them and to get their hair done. I don't know how to address this issue. Please help. thanks.