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KendallR10KendallR10 member
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I know its a bit early in the week but I need this thread now. 
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  • ggirl2001ggirl2001 member
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    Um where is your confession?
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  • crownsuperstarcrownsuperstar member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_confessions-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:13Discussion:31a9a827-7e49-4063-846f-031b720f42c9Post:7fe4b123-bcf6-42e1-aa6a-8a88a09f1d1f">Re: Confessions</a>:
    [QUOTE]Um where is your confession?
    Posted by ggirl2001[/QUOTE]

    You make me laugh! Thanks! I am a little sleepy this morning and needed that!
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  • KendallR10KendallR10 member
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    edited December 2011
    I have a lot today 

    #1. I wake up this morning to a text from a girl that I thought was my friend saying "Kendall's boyfriend is SO ugly." Thanks sweety. No one asked for your comments. At least him and I don't have to live with mom and dad, I'm not pregnant at 16, and I don't have to get on wic because my boyfriend can't hold a job because he can't show up on time. If he wants to get in to the military so badly his time management and drug habits should improve first. I honestly hope you end up with bigger plans for your life than being a stay at home mom with no HS degree. As for me being your friend, forget it. You just ruined a good friendship



    #2 when I deleted my ex best friend's phone number from my phone this weekend and I didn't even care, I knew that we would never be friends again

    eta: make it a confession
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  • ggirl2001ggirl2001 member
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    edited December 2011
    Well don't have a confession thread and not confess something! I don't tell my dirty secrets unless others share. It's only fair!
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  • IrishcurlsIrishcurls member
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    edited December 2011
    Kendall, what is your wedding date? Coming up isn't it?
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  • ggirl2001ggirl2001 member
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    edited December 2011
    1. I thought you were engaged? 2. Don't you live with his parents?
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  • KendallR10KendallR10 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_confessions-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:31a9a827-7e49-4063-846f-031b720f42c9Post:23a43d1b-29f0-4aae-89c6-8adc85a4916f">Re: Confessions</a>:
    [QUOTE]Kendall, what is your wedding date? Coming up isn't it?
    Posted by Irishcurls[/QUOTE]
    Thursday
    Military Brides December 2011 Siggy. Holiday picture with your SO. We suck and don't have one :/ Those who matter don't mind and those who mind don't matter.
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  • KendallR10KendallR10 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_confessions-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:31a9a827-7e49-4063-846f-031b720f42c9Post:57b34662-baee-4b2d-bab6-70eea6ada91d">Re: Confessions</a>:
    [QUOTE]1. I thought you were engaged? 2. Don't you live with his parents?
    Posted by ggirl2001[/QUOTE]
    I am.<div>No we don't live with his parents. We lived with his mom for like a month while they had to get our first Apt ready</div>
    Military Brides December 2011 Siggy. Holiday picture with your SO. We suck and don't have one :/ Those who matter don't mind and those who mind don't matter.
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  • KendallR10KendallR10 member
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    edited December 2011
    #3 I'm super excited to be getting married
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  • calindicalindi member
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    edited December 2011
    My confession isn't so much a confession as a rant.  I am annoyed by everything today.  If my boss (who is honestly trying to be helpful, in his own annoying way) comes in one more time to speak to me, I might just walk out that door and not come back until tomorrow.  And the only reason I'd come back tomorrow is because I need the paycheck.

    Kendall, grow up.  Seriously.  No one goes through friends as quickly as you do.  No grown ups post "so-and-so's boyfriend is ugly".  Surround yourself with people who you respect and hope to be like and you'll grow into the person you want to become.  If you continue being surrounded by idiotic immature twits, then you'll continue to follow that path.  I know, I know - you're going to come respond that that's the whole reason you got rid of this friend.  No, it isn't.  If you weren't bothered by it, you wouldn't have posted.  You also don't have much of a leg to stand on, since while you may not be pregnant at 16, you're getting married at 18, and you've lived with his parents at one point if not right now.  You're a drama-llama, and it's annoying.

    I'm in the mood today to tell people what I'm really feeling.  That's dangerous.

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  • ggirl2001ggirl2001 member
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    edited December 2011
    Kendall I agree that it could be annoying but bashing someone for living at home isn't cool, no matter what the circumstances. I lived with my parents up until i got married because it saved me a ton of money. I guess that can be my confession too.
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  • KendallR10KendallR10 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_confessions-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:31a9a827-7e49-4063-846f-031b720f42c9Post:06978e8f-ddbf-4af7-928f-94fdfad3dc84">Re: Confessions</a>:
    [QUOTE]My confession isn't so much a confession as a rant.  I am annoyed by everything today.  If my boss (who is honestly trying to be helpful, in his own annoying way) comes in one more time to speak to me, I might just walk out that door and not come back until tomorrow.  And the only reason I'd come back tomorrow is because I need the paycheck. Kendall, grow up.  Seriously.  No one goes through friends as quickly as you do.  No grown ups post "so-and-so's boyfriend is ugly".  Surround yourself with people who you respect and hope to be like and you'll grow into the person you want to become.  If you continue being surrounded by idiotic immature twits, then you'll continue to follow that path.  I know, I know - you're going to come respond that that's the whole reason you got rid of this friend.  No, it isn't.  If you weren't bothered by it, you wouldn't have posted.  You also don't have much of a leg to stand on, since while you may not be pregnant at 16, you're getting married at 18, and you've lived with his parents at one point if not right now.  You're a drama-llama, and it's annoying. I'm in the mood today to tell people what I'm really feeling.  That's dangerous.
    Posted by calindi[/QUOTE]
    Um.. I'm 19. And we only lived with his mom for a month because they had to redo the carpet in our apt from the last person who had cats that peed all over it. 
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  • KendallR10KendallR10 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_confessions-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:31a9a827-7e49-4063-846f-031b720f42c9Post:4789cd88-2a12-46d3-87d5-885172e9b7d3">Re: Confessions</a>:
    [QUOTE]Kendall I agree that it could be annoying but bashing someone for living at home isn't cool, no matter what the circumstances. I lived with my parents up until i got married because it saved me a ton of money. I guess that can be my confession too.
    Posted by ggirl2001[/QUOTE]
    She moved out and moved back in. I understand living with your parents but if you tell your parents to GFO (she actually told them that she hated them and that they were the worst parents ever. For no reason) and then go crawling back. I think they should leave you outside on your a$s
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  • ggirl2001ggirl2001 member
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    edited December 2011
    But as you so often say to us, you don't know the entire story. At all. You might know a lot but you aren't her parents so you don't know.
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  • ggirl2001ggirl2001 member
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    edited December 2011
    And really her calling your FI ugly does not necessitate you bashing her life choices. So she's an ass, move on from it. That isn't a confession you posted.
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  • KendallR10KendallR10 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_confessions-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:31a9a827-7e49-4063-846f-031b720f42c9Post:566cb3f2-616a-4641-9880-e4e93847169b">Re: Confessions</a>:
    [QUOTE]But as you so often say to us, you don't know the entire story. At all. You might know a lot but you aren't her parents so you don't know.
    Posted by ggirl2001[/QUOTE]
    I don't know the entire story but I helped her move out. If she couldn't afford to move out and stay out for a least 1 month she shouldn't have moved out at all
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  • calindicalindi member
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    edited December 2011
    Ugh.... 19 vs. 18?  Really?  Okay, congrats.  You're still a teenager, my point is sufficiently made by your behavior rather than your age.

    You're getting married on Thursday.  It's time to start acting like the adult you keep telling us that you are.

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  • crownsuperstarcrownsuperstar member
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    edited December 2011

    Were you there when she did that? 
    What 16 year old doesn't have issues with their parents? 

    My mother and I got into epic fights when I was a teenager. 

    It is called parental love and you have no right to judge their willingness to let their daughter move back in with them.  It annoys me that you are judging this family.  Do you pay their bills?  It is none of your business! 

    Oh and yeah I was a college graduate and lived at home with my mom for about 1 1/2 years after I graduated.  I was working but I wanted to save money. 

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  • ggirl2001ggirl2001 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_confessions-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:13Discussion:31a9a827-7e49-4063-846f-031b720f42c9Post:f21d0f0c-f281-49ff-8bae-9a866cff898b">Re: Confessions</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Confessions : I don't know the entire story but I helped her move out. If she couldn't afford to move out and stay out for a least 1 month she shouldn't have moved out at all
    Posted by KendallR10[/QUOTE]

    So she tried and failed. Shiit happens. I can just easily say that since you are 19 you shouldn't be getting married. See how that works? You don't like it when people "should" on you so it doesn't make sense that you would do it to someone else. And really, is this worth it? I mean FFS so she thinks he's ugly so now everything she has done you judge? That's just as bad.
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  • IrishcurlsIrishcurls member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_confessions-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:31a9a827-7e49-4063-846f-031b720f42c9Post:6fa5ba5d-1660-4f9c-8763-49494604cef8">Re: Confessions</a>:
    [QUOTE]  <strong>Oh and yeah I was a college graduate and lived at home with my mom for about 1 1/2 years after I graduated.  I was working but I wanted to save money. </strong>
    Posted by crownsuperstar[/QUOTE]
    Bang-o! Only replace mom with dad and step-mother. And I was 25! It's hard living on your own, as I'm sure you're finding out.
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  • KendallR10KendallR10 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_confessions-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:31a9a827-7e49-4063-846f-031b720f42c9Post:91474de1-4de0-472e-84f2-f2c2dcf678c0">Re: Confessions</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Confessions : Bang-o! Only replace mom with dad and step-mother. And I was 25! It's hard living on your own, as I'm sure you're finding out.
    Posted by Irishcurls[/QUOTE]
    I love living on my own. I hated living with my dad and step mom and their untrained dog. The only thing I miss about living with my dad is the food. 
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  • CAB1217CAB1217
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    Here we go....
    Ok Kendall, seriously. Your "confession" is very immature. Who gives a flying eff word what your friend thinks of your "boyfriend". He's yours, not hers, get over it. In fact, be glad that she's not all up on your FI.

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  • KendallR10KendallR10 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_confessions-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:31a9a827-7e49-4063-846f-031b720f42c9Post:b15a4429-b313-4938-a134-69e8f3872919">Re: Confessions</a>:
    [QUOTE]Here we go.... Ok Kendall, seriously. Your "confession" is very immature. Who gives a flying eff word what your friend thinks of your "boyfriend". He's yours, not hers, get over it. In fact, be glad that she's not all up on your FI.
    Posted by CAB1217[/QUOTE]
    He doesn't do drugs and he has a job. She wouldn't like him
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  • CAB1217CAB1217
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    Oh, and hi... 29 and I live with my parents. And will continue to live with HIS parents when we move... what do you have to say to that, Kendall?
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  • KendallR10KendallR10 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_confessions-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:31a9a827-7e49-4063-846f-031b720f42c9Post:ed935c1e-7564-4436-babd-07e460917a71">Re: Confessions</a>:
    [QUOTE]Oh, and hi... 29 and I live with my parents. And will continue to live with HIS parents when we move... what do you have to say to that, Kendall?
    Posted by CAB1217[/QUOTE]
    Are you telling them to GFO first? <div>
    </div><div>
    </div><div>Its the fact she told them to GFO and they just let her waltz back in and take over the house, car and bank account that pisses me off</div>
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  • CAB1217CAB1217
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    I confess that I'm done with this conversation with Kendall.

    I also confess that I was pathetically happy last night when a 16 year old boy said I was "gorgeous" when I was handing out candy last night LMAO!
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  • ggirl2001ggirl2001 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_confessions-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:13Discussion:31a9a827-7e49-4063-846f-031b720f42c9Post:00314a7c-6b41-4c63-aab3-1727cff9ad9b">Re: Confessions</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Confessions : Are you telling them to GFO first?  Its the fact she told them to GFO and they just let her waltz back in and take over the house, car and bank account that pisses me off
    Posted by KendallR10[/QUOTE]

    FFS IT'S NOT YOUT FVCKING HOUSE OR BANK ACCT OR CHILD! It's the parents decisions. Maybe she's in counseling, maybe the parents are but to tear her apart because she said your FI is ugly?? What the hell kind of friend does that make you?
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  • LetsHikeTodayLetsHikeToday member
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    My confession? I'm super homesick for Pittsburgh and my mom and dad. I miss them so much.
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  • crownsuperstarcrownsuperstar member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_confessions-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:13Discussion:31a9a827-7e49-4063-846f-031b720f42c9Post:401a55ac-5d65-44b7-8797-f5170ddf967b">Re: Confessions</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Confessions : I love living on my own. I hated living with my dad and step mom and their untrained dog. The only thing I miss about living with my dad is the food. 
    Posted by KendallR10[/QUOTE]

    No one ever said they didn't like living on their own.  I think you just don't get it.  Some times people have to move back in with their parents and that does not make them less mature or unable to take care of themselves.  It in many cases is a very mature decision.  After college, I was broke and in debt with student loans and a car payment.  What I was making in my first job could not have allowed me to support myself and I was not going to go into more debt to live off of credit cards. 
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  • ggirl2001ggirl2001 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_confessions-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:13Discussion:31a9a827-7e49-4063-846f-031b720f42c9Post:49332d1c-d9ae-47ba-bf0b-af2c7e1cdcf2">Re: Confessions</a>:
    [QUOTE]My confession? I'm super homesick for Pittsburgh and my mom and dad. I miss them so much.
    Posted by LetsHikeToday[/QUOTE]

    Hugs hike!!!!
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