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Secret marriage, planning wedding... complicated

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Re: Secret marriage, planning wedding... complicated

  • calindicalindi member
    5000 Comments Second Anniversary Combo Breaker
    edited December 2011
    But don't you see???  They're just trying to make everyone happy... by secretly getting married when their families didn't approve of the engagement!  By lying to everyone for over a year!  Don't you understand???

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  • SamiJoeBSamiJoeB
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    edited December 2011
    Ohhhh!!!! Now I get it!! That makes total sense now!! Clearly, the rest of us are doing/did things totally ass-backwards... Silly Military Brides!!! Secret JOP/"real weddings" based on lies are for the Real Adults.

    I guess I'll just go back to my "glamourous Military life" eating bonbons, being unemployed, and getting fat..
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  • divinemsbeedivinemsbee member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_secret-marriage-planning-wedding-complicated?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:31ba0683-2bd9-4473-b286-d5238aefe426Post:1195f57c-fc09-4b99-ae2f-e5df71aea878">Re: Secret marriage, planning wedding... complicated</a>:
    [QUOTE]Ohhhh!!!! Now I get it!! That makes total sense now!! Clearly, the rest of us are doing/did things totally ass-backwards... Silly Military Brides!!! Secret JOP/"real weddings" based on lies are for the Real Adults. <strong>I guess I'll just go back to my "glamourous Military life" eating bonbons, being unemployed, and getting fat..</strong>
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    Aww, that's what my FMIL thinks I'm going to do! (Another post, I promise, when I have the energy to get into that.)
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  • firsttimersluckfirsttimersluck member
    2500 Comments Third Anniversary 25 Love Its Name Dropper
    edited December 2011
    mmmmmmmmmmmmm bonbons.......... :)
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  • greeneke2greeneke2
    500 Comments
    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_secret-marriage-planning-wedding-complicated?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:31ba0683-2bd9-4473-b286-d5238aefe426Post:06818ced-fde7-45e8-b029-68249df145e1">Secret marriage, planning wedding... complicated</a>:
    [QUOTE]I think some of you misread or didn't understand what I was saying. <strong>We are in no way trying to pull one over on anyone.</strong> We are just doing what is best for everyone to make everyone happy, including ourselves.  No more ignorant "opinions" needed.  I didn't read any further responses, and I won't....
    Posted by FiancLaCrosse[/QUOTE]

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    </div><div>Really?? You aren't trying to pull anything over on anyone? Did you read the title of your post??? SECRET MARRIAGE, PLANNING WEDDING.  Gee that sounds a lot like you are trying to pull something over on someone.  Like getting them to come to your fake wedding and have you friends and family that you have been lying to (and not to mention defrauding the military) watch you "get married" even though you are already married.  Hmmm. You are right.  It doesn't sound like you are trying to pull anything over on anyone at all.  SMH.</div>
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  • ggirl2001ggirl2001 member
    Ninth Anniversary 2500 Comments 5 Love Its Combo Breaker
    edited December 2011
    I'm so glad I was hanging out with friends yesterday and didn't see it. It actually just gets me angry. FI and I have been in a LDR for 2 1/2 years!  Not once, did I think, hmmmm let's lie to our families so we can live together etc. It doesn't prove that you love your FI so much more because you went and got married quickly because of a deployment. My FI is deployed too. Still not married here.
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  • jamie5482jamie5482
    100 Comments
    edited December 2011
    I don't have the energy for this kind of ridiculousness right now. Glad everyone else already has it covered! 

    And, truly, I don't understand WHY people try to use the excuse that their SO could "get yanked away at any moment" so they need to get marriedrightthissecondandkeepitasecret. First of all - many vendors will put you a nice, pretty, military clause into the contract for just such an occasion. 

    And, seriously, give me a break - we could ALL get "yanked away" at any second, get hit by a bus, have a heart attack, get electrocuted by having a old school phone too close to the bathtub (sorry, just watched the video for Boyz II Men's "I'll Make Love to You". Oh, nostalgia...). That never justifies lying to others, at least in my opinion. But, hey, what do I know, I should just shut my common sense trap and go back to my regularly scheduled program of fanciness and glamor. 
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  • kyrgyzstankyrgyzstan member
    Eighth Anniversary 1000 Comments 100 Love Its Name Dropper
    edited December 2011
    Honestly, and I hate to say this because there is a lot of sanity on this board in general, but broads like OP are what make me so loathe to ever, ever participate in any sort of spouses' club or spouses' actiuvities. 

    Yeah. NONE of us have ever had to deal with an SO that could be yanked away at any second. Oh, except maybe almost all of us? 

    My facebook says engaged because I am. I hope your FI isn't friends with any one in his leadership who cares about lying.
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