Ok, so I'm a bit concerned with the whole 'giving me away' issue and I would like your opinions on it.
My biological father left my mother while she was still pregnant with me and didn't bother to get in touch with me until I was 10 years old. That was 13 years ago and since then we have gotten a bit closer, but no where near the way a father and daughter should be.
My mother met my stepdad when I was 3 and I grew up calling him Daddy for the next 20 years. Last year during Christmas, he said something to me that I cannot get past (I doubt anyone would be able to get over what he said if he said it to them), and now I don't even look at him, not even if we're in the same room.
My mother's dad, my grandpa, has been there since before I was born and has spoiled me and taken care of me the way a father should take care of his daughter. He can't stand my stepdad and can't believe that my mom married him, so in his mind, I have replaced my mom and I am his little girl.