I have been engaged since June 2009 and since the beginning, my younger sister hasn't been very excited about my wedding. I thought at the beginning, maybe she was just jealous or just unhappy that I was engaged and she wasn't, but nothing has really changed. We were very close when we were growing up and I still call her almost everyday. Lately, she has been different and is involved in drugs. I had already asked her to be my MOH, but I have less than a year until my wedding and she still thinks it is too early to be planning things. She has never been involved in planning a wedding and I have tried to explain to her that right now is the time we need to get things rolling. She became distant because of the drugs. We will make plans and she will blow me off. I have talked to her about the wedding and asked her if she still wanted to be my MOH and how big of a responsiblity it is, but she got offended that I even asked her that. She doesn't have a job or any money saved up. My cousin is also in my wedding and we have become really close recently, so I made her my MOH also because I feel like she deserves to be. NOw, I don't want my sister to be my MOH and I am getting to the point that I don't even want her in my wedding because she is stressing me out. There is alittle more to the story than I am telling, but it is personal. I'm just not sure what to do. I don't want to ruin my relationship with my sister, because I am the only person in our family that she still talks to, so I want to be there for her if she needs me when she gets off her drugs, but I don't know what to do about the wedding. Basically, what should I say to her about being in my wedding? Keep in mind that she is very sensitve with words and usually twists things around to make me the bad guy. Please Help!!