samijoe

KendallR10 · December 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_samijoe-4?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:161341e5-3981-4ac9-8f84-334255692105Post:c6a9f35d-5ba4-4a65-b333-e64bd878adf9">Re: samijoe</a>:
[QUOTE]<strong>Kendall.... Sami was worried about you because as much as you annoy the crap out of all of us, you're a kid and still have a lot to learn, but you deserve to be happy and healthy. So when you disappeared, she wanted to make sure you were alright. Go sue her, right?</strong> And sure, it "wasn't effing planned" this time, but you were trying not three months ago. So you were trying, didn't get pregnant, and started birth control again? And then got pregnant? None of us care whether you knew three days, a month, whatever. You just have the most ridiculously dramatic situations, have the most ridiculously twisted and naive and immature view on things, and then tell us all "you don't know me!" which totally proves your point... not. I think we'd all be VERY happy to see you come back here in 5 years, still married, and with a happy and healthy and well-adjusted kid and with a comfortable life and ideally a career that you're happy with and successful. But you have stacked the deck against yourself sooooo much that I'd say it's kind of a chance in hell that it will all work out for you, and that's sad. So I just want to smack my forehead whenever you continue to dig your hole deeper.
Posted by calindi[/QUOTE]

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</div><div>Yet when I asked her if she had a FB. She basically flipped out thinking I was calling her a liar. I don't care when she got her FB, I just wanted to make sure it wasn't some creeper. I'm not sure why she wouldn't just PM. Or why she thinks I would add her to FB. </div><div>
</div><div>Hubs really wanted a baby and I didn't. So I went back on BC. And managed to get pregnant. I was pretty pissed the day I found out. </div><div>
</div><div>I'm sorry you think that things won't work out for me and H. That makes me sad that people don't have faith. </div>

LetsHikeToday · December 2011

How far along are you Kendall? Did you skip pills?

KendallR10 · December 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_samijoe-4?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:161341e5-3981-4ac9-8f84-334255692105Post:6964a1e3-7b7b-42ae-addb-f952abcbc4ba">Re: samijoe</a>:
[QUOTE]How far along are you Kendall? Did you skip pills?
Posted by LetsHikeToday[/QUOTE]
I'm 11 weeks. No I didn't skip pills. I didn't take them at the exact same time everyday. I am on meds to fight an infection.. The dr thinks they effected that

kara811 · December 2011

What's the point of being on BC if you're not taking them at the same time everyday? That's how they work!!

LetsHikeToday · December 2011

Didn't you notice when you didn't get your period after the first month?

KendallR10 · December 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_samijoe-4?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:161341e5-3981-4ac9-8f84-334255692105Post:0be7a846-af3b-4254-9349-c8d7f9863c8d">Re: samijoe</a>:
[QUOTE]What's the point of being on BC if you're not taking them at the same time everyday? That's how they work!!
Posted by kara811[/QUOTE]
I was told within the same 3 hours and they would work. <div>
</div><div>I started taking them because I have "lay in bed and cry all day long" kind of periods</div>

KendallR10 · December 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_samijoe-4?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:161341e5-3981-4ac9-8f84-334255692105Post:0df4b21b-71e3-4961-b516-8dac378e1536">Re: samijoe</a>:
[QUOTE]Didn't you notice when you didn't get your period after the first month?
Posted by LetsHikeToday[/QUOTE]
I got pregnant in september. I got my period that month. But not in october. I took the test the 4th of november.

calindi · December 2011

.... 11 weeks? Like, the first 2 periods you missed didn't tip you off???

BinxRose · December 2011

So...you didn't get your period for at least 2 months, and it never occurred to you "hey, something isn't right. I should take a test" until AFTER the wedding? Listen, things happen. Sometimes people get pregnant before they mean to. We all know that. But you are only fooling yourself if you think anyone is going to believe you found out the day after your wedding. Grow up.

KendallR10 · December 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_samijoe-4?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:161341e5-3981-4ac9-8f84-334255692105Post:2fb8c021-7ce4-4acd-b329-8c4b9767d542">Re: samijoe</a>:
[QUOTE].... 11 weeks? Like, the first 2 periods you missed didn't tip you off???
Posted by calindi[/QUOTE]
I found out when I was 6 weeks pregnant. I got my period in sept. Missed oct. Found out in nov. I knew before I was supposed to get my 2nd missed period

calindi · December 2011

WHO GIVES A..... whatever

KendallR10 · December 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_samijoe-4?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:161341e5-3981-4ac9-8f84-334255692105Post:d505c536-66e2-491c-a134-6a1e108d98b8">Re: samijoe</a>:
[QUOTE]So...you didn't get your period for at least 2 months, and it never occurred to you "hey, something isn't right. I should take a test" until AFTER the wedding? Listen, things happen. Sometimes people get pregnant before they mean to. We all know that. But you are only fooling yourself if you think anyone is going to believe you found out the day after your wedding. Grow up.
Posted by BinxRose[/QUOTE]
I got my period in sept. But not oct. Then I knew before I missed my second period. <div>
</div><div>You are going to believe what you want. Weather its the truth or a lie. </div>

kara811 · December 2011

Well, I don't know why you were told that but women have been known to get pregnant with only missing it for an hour or two and without taking other precautions. My doctor advised me to take it before the 24 hours of the last time I took it, better early than late.

Danidawn20 · December 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_samijoe-4?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:161341e5-3981-4ac9-8f84-334255692105Post:fd93e160-e57b-40a0-bd37-a61962456e1e">Re: samijoe</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: samijoe : I got my period in sept. But not oct. Then I knew before I missed my second period. You are going to believe what you want.<strong> Weather</strong> its the truth or a lie.
Posted by KendallR10[/QUOTE]
I don't wan tto get into the Dramma of this at all. THis might be the teacher in me, but you used the wrong whether. The weatheryou usedis for what happens in nature and outside. The whether you should have used is for decisions and options. Again, it's just the teacher in me, you don't have to listen

AmandaSC1988 · December 2011

Wait wait wait... I thought you were only 3 days late!? There are more holes in your story that swiss cheese.<div>
</div><div>[QUOTE]</div><div> <span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;" class="Apple-style-span">Hubs really wanted a baby and I didn't. So I went back on BC. And managed to get pregnant. I was pretty pissed the day I found out. </span>[/QUOTE]</div><div><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;" class="Apple-style-span">
</span></div><div><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;" class="Apple-style-span">You seriously made my heart hurt. As much as I want to wait to have a baby until FI and I are settled in life, I would never EVER be pissed if I turned up pregnant. That just isn't a healthy outlook on your future child. Assuming you are keeping it. </span></div>

KendallR10 · December 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_samijoe-4?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:161341e5-3981-4ac9-8f84-334255692105Post:b9ded0ae-2764-44bd-8528-19cfa6ed2b74">Re: samijoe</a>:
[QUOTE]Wait wait wait... I thought you were only 3 days late!? There are more holes in your story that swiss cheese. You seriously made my heart hurt. As much as I want to wait to have a baby until FI and I are settled in life, I would never EVER be pissed if I turned up pregnant. That just isn't a healthy outlook on your future child.
Posted by AmandaSC1988[/QUOTE]
No I was 3 weeks late. If I'm stressed out my period comes late but never more than 3 days. <div>
</div><div>I'm not pissed any more. I was when I found out. A baby wasn't part of my plan. Now my plans have changed. </div>

LetsHikeToday · December 2011

Kendall- are you still going to go back to school?

firemedicrr · December 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_samijoe-4?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:161341e5-3981-4ac9-8f84-334255692105Post:0bfc2efb-1c40-4804-98c3-bfc555f2b49e">Re: samijoe</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: samijoe : I'm 11 weeks. No I didn't skip pills. I didn't take them at the exact same time everyday. I am on meds to fight an infection.. The dr thinks they effected that
Posted by KendallR10[/QUOTE]

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</div><div>Is it just me, or isn't it common knowledge that being on abx makes birth control ineffective? -Every- time I have been on abx in my adult life, the dr has mentioned "If you use oral contraceptives, you need a backup while on this med and for 7 days after your dose is completed"... and I'm fairly certain that that's in the literature they give you with the abx, and with your bc pills. Who takes meds without reading about them?! ignorance really must be bliss, until it gets you pregnant (supposedly).</div><div>
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LetsHikeToday · December 2011

Fire- I thought so too. My doctors always says That and it says it on the bottle.

KendallR10 · December 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_samijoe-4?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:161341e5-3981-4ac9-8f84-334255692105Post:989abb1e-91aa-44e5-ae52-71a2d4d3e393">Re: samijoe</a>:
[QUOTE]Kendall- are you still going to go back to school?
Posted by LetsHikeToday[/QUOTE]
In the spring. I'm going to go full time for a term and then part time starting winter 2013

KendallR10 · December 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_samijoe-4?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:161341e5-3981-4ac9-8f84-334255692105Post:267a0684-9fad-45aa-a325-cf5a33a4476b">Re: samijoe</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: samijoe : Is it just me, or isn't it common knowledge that being on abx makes birth control ineffective? -Every- time I have been on abx in my adult life, the dr has mentioned "If you use oral contraceptives, you need a backup while on this med and for 7 days after your dose is completed"... and I'm fairly certain that that's in the literature they give you with the abx, and with your bc pills. Who takes meds without reading about them?! ignorance really must be bliss, until it gets you pregnant (supposedly).
Posted by firemedicrr[/QUOTE]
The dr never said that. I honestly wish he had

firemedicrr · December 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_samijoe-4?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:161341e5-3981-4ac9-8f84-334255692105Post:16dc8aa3-dae6-4cb7-b6f6-bbfcb062b0d3">Re: samijoe</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: samijoe : The dr never said that. I honestly wish he had
Posted by KendallR10[/QUOTE]

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</div><div>and you didn't -read- about something and it's possible side effects with the meds you were already taking before putting it in your body? </div><div>
</div><div>I actually feel sorry for you (and your kid that you were pissed about being pregnant with). What a sad way to have to learn to pay attention to what you do in life. </div>

ggirl2001 · December 2011

The pharmacist has mentioned it to me EVERY SINGLE TIME. And I have been on BC for 11 years.

firemedicrr · December 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_samijoe-4?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:161341e5-3981-4ac9-8f84-334255692105Post:b61fb952-7e76-4a58-a698-110eea8f3032">Re: samijoe</a>:
[QUOTE]The pharmacist has mentioned it to me EVERY SINGLE TIME. And I have been on BC for 11 years.
Posted by ggirl2001[/QUOTE]

<div>yeah, like I said- I'm with you and hike.

I'm thinking this is mud too. Whatever. She's either lying or stupid, and I feel bad for her kid either way. </div>

AmandaSC1988 · December 2011

So... I don't know why I didn't think of this earlier. Someone correct me if I am wrong... but stress will not delay your period if you are on birth control. Stress can make it late if you aren't on HBC; naturally, your body is looking for the 'ideal' condition before ovulating. When you are stressed just before you ovulate that isn't an 'ideal' time so your body delays ovulating until your body prepared.

But, you were on (please stop now if you are still taking it)HBC, and you should know that you aren't actually ovulating AT ALL! The period is just for show, and I believe is is a chemical withdrawl bleed. In conclusion, stress really shouldn't cause you to be late.

Did you go to one of those high schools that didn't teach sex ed? ugh!

firemedicrr · December 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_samijoe-4?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:161341e5-3981-4ac9-8f84-334255692105Post:764e1d57-e3ba-45a9-9da7-463cb52ca284">Re: samijoe</a>:
[QUOTE]So... I don't know why I didn't think of this earlier. Someone correct me if I am wrong... but stress will not delay your period if you are on birth control. Stress can make it late if you aren't on HBC; naturally, your body is looking for the 'ideal' condition before ovulating. When you are stressed just before you ovulate that isn't an 'ideal' time so your body delays ovulating until your body prepared. But, you were on (please stop now if you are still taking it)HBC, and you should know that you aren't actually ovulating AT ALL! The period is just for show, and I believe is is a chemical withdrawl bleed. In conclusion, stress really shouldn't cause you to be late. Did you go to one of those high schools that didn't teach sex ed? ugh!
Posted by AmandaSC1988[/QUOTE]

<div>You're right, but I wasn't even going to go there- way too complicated for OP IMHO. </div><div>
</div><div>BC pills main mechanism of action is by preventing your body from making the hormones associated with ovulation and menstruation, which is why often times it can take up to 6 weeks once you stop taking the pill to menstruate again (you don't ovulate until about 2 weeks after you stop taking the pill... IF you've been taking it correctly)...</div>

melbelle24 · December 2011

Holy cow, this board exploded today. I'm staying out of the drama and gonna mostly keep my opinion to myself, but I do have a couple of points I feel like I have to say...
1) I have a hard time believing that no one told you antibiotics could decrease the effectiveness of your BC; doctors, nurses, and pharmacists all know this and have a duty to explain it to you (at least docs and pharmacists do). But it happened, so congrats and good luck to you Kendall.

2) For everybody saying that she's wrong for being mad/upset when she found out she was preggo, I think you're in the wrong here. It's a major shock, and it takes an adjustment. One of my family members found out she was pregnant when her second child was only 6 months old. She cried for days, but once she got that out of her system she was a happy, well-adjusted expecting mother. Now if she's 3-4 months pregnant and still pissed off about it, that's a different story.

firemedicrr · December 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_samijoe-4?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:161341e5-3981-4ac9-8f84-334255692105Post:1e90af20-d784-42b8-a07b-5e1e33f179cc">Re: samijoe</a>:
[QUOTE]Holy cow, this board exploded today. I'm staying out of the drama and gonna mostly keep my opinion to myself, but I do have a couple of points I feel like I have to say... 1) I have a hard time believing that no one told you antibiotics could decrease the effectiveness of your BC; doctors, nurses, and pharmacists all know this and have a duty to explain it to you (at least docs and pharmacists do). But it happened, so congrats and good luck to you Kendall. 2) <strong> For everybody saying that she's wrong for being mad/upset when she found out she was preggo, I think you're in the wrong here. It's a major shock, and it takes an adjustment. One of my family members found out she was pregnant when her second child was only 6 months old. She cried for days, but once she got that out of her system she was a happy, well-adjusted expecting mother. Now if she's 3-4 months pregnant and still pissed off about it, that's a different story.</strong>
Posted by melbelle24[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>I agree in a situation like your family member's.... but when Kendall was claiming to be trying to get pregnant just a few short months ago? just even more reason to believe...</div><div>
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melbelle24 · December 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_samijoe-4?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:161341e5-3981-4ac9-8f84-334255692105Post:5cef909f-d71b-4e92-a7d2-8e13c4a7cf16">Re: samijoe</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: samijoe : I agree in a situation like your family member's.... but when Kendall was claiming to be trying to get pregnant just a few short months ago?<strong> just even more reason to believe...</strong>
Posted by firemedicrr[/QUOTE]
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Zimsgirl · December 2011

I agree with everyone and just wanted to say it's pretty sh!tty of you to talk crap about SamiJoe on facebook and immature

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