Just something I've noticed:
I've seen a lot of weddings menus where it lists the tableside choices, or the pre-selected choices on the RSVP card - beef, chicken, fish, whatever - and then it says "Vegetarian entree available upon request."
So if you can request an eggplant dish the same way that you would a beef or a chicken dish, why isn't the eggplant listed as a regular entree choice then?
I can understand if everyone's getting the same chicken or duet plate and they have some vegetarian dishes set aside for those who need them. I'm referring to instances where you have a choice of meat/fish entrees.