Yeah, they're crazy, and I'm glad they aren't in my life anymore. I miss my niece and nephew so much though. I have hope that when they're older they'll want a relationship with us because we're their father's family.
I hate one of my H's grad school classmates. She's just a complete selfish biitch. She got married a couple of years ago. Her sister was her MOH, and was pregnant. Sadly, her sister lost the baby. This girl's response? "Well, at least now she won't ruin my bachlorette party by not being able to drink".
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_this-is-from-tn-but-i-have-been-thinking-about-it-too-lately?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:e34a4eee-9f10-4e9d-a564-657c546edf8cPost:0ca36d23-ef09-4311-b035-5fe2046d6c60">Re: This is from TN but I have been thinking about it too lately</a>: [QUOTE]I hate my sister in law. She treated my whole family like shiit after my brother was killed and blocked all contact we had with their kids. I also hate her father who told my dad at my brother's funeral "At least your son can properly provide for my daughter now." I really dislike a lot of people, but I'm pretty sure they are the only two I hate. Posted by kcscejal[/QUOTE]
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_this-is-from-tn-but-i-have-been-thinking-about-it-too-lately?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:e34a4eee-9f10-4e9d-a564-657c546edf8cPost:0ca36d23-ef09-4311-b035-5fe2046d6c60">Re: This is from TN but I have been thinking about it too lately</a>: [QUOTE]I hate my sister in law. She treated my whole family like shiit after my brother was killed and blocked all contact we had with their kids. I also hate her father who told my dad at my brother's funeral "At least your son can properly provide for my daughter now." I really dislike a lot of people, but I'm pretty sure they are the only two I hate. Posted by kcscejal[/QUOTE]
Oh my gosh. Kcs that's a horrible story. I cannot believe that he said that to you. I think it's perfectly acceptable for you to hate him. I'm so sorry about your brother :-(
I honestly can't think of anyone that I hate. There are people who drive me batty and I find obnoxious but I don't hate them. I think it's okay to hate people and some people deserve to be hated. I just am lucky that I haven't come across people like that yet.
ETA: I think I don't know how I define hate. If we're defining it as people we'd gladly never see again then yes I have a few of those. If we're defining it as someone we'd wish horrible things on then I don't have those. Unless strangers count because I'd wish bad things on some of the people you guys are talking about.
I hate this girl (K) who used to be one of my best friends. We always had kind of a rocky friendship because we were too much alike sometimes, both stubborn etc, but it all really fell apart about 5 years ago. I was with my last boyfriend (C), and she met his cousin (J) through me. I didn't really set them up, but they ended up liking each other and started dating. At the time, I didn't realize what a horrible person the cousin was. Shortly after they started dating, he found ways to seclude her and to keep her from all of her friends. At one point, she stopped talking to me. Later on, 2 more friends stopped talking to me and I had no idea why. It turned out that J had been telling K things that weren't true, like, "Oh so I heard you were out with another guy. C told me, he heard it from his gf." My assumption is that J made these things up to turn her against me because he was an addict and he didn't want me to be able to tell her, or for her to believe me if I did tell her.
She not only believed him, but she told other people about it. She made it so that I was completely excluded from group activities with our friends for a long time. I was really depressed about the whole thing, and I didn't understand what was going on for at least a year after it started happening. Finally, one of my best friends stood up and said, "You know what, I'm not going if K (me, not the other gir, we're both K, sorry) isn't invited. It hurts her feelings and I'm not participating anymore." Another friend followed suit and basically the group split in half. Of the 3 friends I lost, I have one of them back now and I don't want K or the other girl back, but I still hate K for what she did. It hurt me a lot that she a) didn't know me well enough to know I wouldn't spread false rumors behind her back, b) was willing to tell other people I'd done it without a lick of proof and c) tried to turn all of my friends against me and succeeded temporarily with 1 of them and permanently with the other. Also, after finding out what a horrible person J is (he stole from his family countless times, stole from her family, hid his addiction from her, etc) she still doesn't concede that maybe he was lying and I didn't do anything wrong.
Also, to be clear, I do NOT think addicts are horrible people in general. But J is, and he was horrible long before his addicton started.
KC, that's effed up about your SIL and her dad. I don't blame you for that in the least.
I hate XH, in the sense that I never want to talk to him again, and I hope that karma comes back to bite him in the asss. I just would like him to experience some of what he put me through. Don't want horrible things to happen to him, but I wouldn't mind if the new baby has colic or something along those lines.
"Smash's balls are the biggest balls of them all." -AATB
I hate the tramp who got her hooks into my H. I realize that this is all his fault, he's an adult who made his own decisions. But she's just...not a nice human being.
Holy fvcking shiit, these are some terrible stories. I cannot believe these people.
I don't have an issue with hating people. To me, hating someone means actively disliking them to the point where you would find satisfaction in something truly terrible happening to them. I think some people do actions that warrant that.
Personally, I don't currently hate anyone, but I really wouldn't feel bad if I did. If someone did something that cruel to me or someone I love, then they deserve that hatred. I guess that makes me a bad Christian, but oh well. But to borrow Jill's parameters, there are certainly people I loathe.
Wow, the people from these posts definitely deserve to be hated.
I have a list of people I hate. I hate my uncle's wife, who is such a lying, conniving bitch. She is hanging all over my grandmother like a vulture waiting for her to die so she can steal anything she can.
I hate my best friend's BF, because that POS dared to lay a hand on her, as well as cheat on her and take her $. I've talked about him before on here.
I hate my other uncle, who is a lazy sack of shitt drunk.
I hate my ex-friend, who managed to ruin three straight birthdays for me and whose GF broke my elbow on my birthday.
I hate a handful of my former co-workers. One in particular gets most of my hate because he was a scumbug who told me flat out his goal was to have sex with me and he was at least twice my age with a daughter as old as I was, and then none of the supervisors did anything about the subsequent harassament. Needless to say, it can be a sticky situation if I have explain why I left that job. Also, the guy tried to get my car towed on multiple occasions, and got my number from the employee list and proceeded to call me on several occassions (some while he was at work) and not always from his phone but from the supervisors cell phone as well.
I kind of hate my aunt right now. I used to post about her a lot. I have hopes she will come around someday, but for now, I just really hate her and I hate what she's done to our family. Long story short, she's an alcoholic and is divorcing my uncle to be with a homeless guy she went to high school with, who is also an alcoholic. By recent photos on her FB, she is looking pretty rough and I imagine she's also doing some hard drugs with him. It wouldn't be as tragic if my aunt and uncle didn't have a sweet 7 year old son - my cousin, who has very serious medical needs. My aunt has no job and my uncle still pays rent on the house while also paying for rent on his new apartment. I hate that my cousin is in the middle of that clusterfuuck and halfway hope he gets taken away from her. She doesn't deserve him. She also lies to my grandparents all the time about my uncle raping her all the time and she's always coming to the house with druggie friends. They had to change the locks and the codes on the garage door, etc so she won't come in. She terrorizes my grandparents and it is ripping them to pieces.
So yeah, I pretty much hate her for that. I pray for her recovery every single night but I really, really hate her right now.
I don't actively hate anyone right now. I hold a lot of anger for my dad's family and they way they treated me, my sister and mom after he died. I guess the better word is that I am hurt by their actions and lack there of. However if many of them were to pass away I'd feel something maybe not for myself but more for their immediate family. I used to think that was wrong of me but I come to terms with my feelings for them and I think they are justified.
I may one day want to have a full on relationship with them but as of right now I am comfortable with where it lies. Lately I have been a little more forthcoming with them but I tend to keep my distance and often only allow them small tidbits of my life.
I think the closet I come to hate is the feelings I have towards the girl who killed my mom. Mainly because I know she didn't learn from her mistake, and she's since used her vehicle as a dangerous weapon against someone else.
But hate uses a lot of energy, and I don't want to put any energy into this girl.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_this-is-from-tn-but-i-have-been-thinking-about-it-too-lately?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:e34a4eee-9f10-4e9d-a564-657c546edf8cPost:adf812d8-f876-4470-94df-fe6ce09d6b19">Re: This is from TN but I have been thinking about it too lately</a>: [QUOTE]Ash, I don't blame you. I hate the tramp who got her hooks into my H. I realize that this is all his fault, he's an adult who made his own decisions. But she's just...not a nice human being. Posted by baystateapple[/QUOTE] Bay, I try not to think that about XH's whatever-she-is, but I've heard from a friend that she thinks the whole thing is funny and has made jokes about them running into me at the grocery store or Target, so I feel justified in some hatred for her, although it's ultimately XH who is the total douche.<div> </div><div>AATB, I'm sorry to hear that your aunt has gone downhill even more. That makes me sad for your cousin.</div>
"Smash's balls are the biggest balls of them all." -AATB
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_this-is-from-tn-but-i-have-been-thinking-about-it-too-lately?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:e34a4eee-9f10-4e9d-a564-657c546edf8cPost:7eb221eb-12cb-4955-8c65-a64869a7a2cf">Re: This is from TN but I have been thinking about it too lately</a>: [QUOTE]Bay- Sorry you're going through everything that is going on. :-( Posted by LetsHikeToday[/QUOTE]
Me too Bay. I'm out of the loop so I don't really know what's happening but I can tell that things have been tough and I'm sorry. I hope things get better.
After reading some of your stories I am not sure if I know anyone who truly deserves my hate. I do loathe the crap out of some people though and there are others that I wish giant bags of negative karma on.
Pirate- DH's father was killed by a drunk driver. He never talks about it... and I don't really ask. I wonder how he feels about the driver (a teenage girl, but now probably a 40 something).
I used to be a big hater/grudge holder and it wasn't pleasant. I've put a lot of effort into improving that in myself, and now I don't think there is anyone I hate. People I dislike and would avoid at all costs in public? Sure. Hate? No.
Some harsh experiences in this thread, worthy of hate for sure. I have hated people. I try to avoid that now. The weight of it is just to much for me to carry around.
Yes. I actively wish Fred Phelps and his "church" would die in a plane crash, except for the kids. They have absolutely no positive influence on the world and it would be far better off without them. I hate them with a passion.
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Some of these stories made my jaw drop. It floors me how some people can be so horrible to others.
Personally, I don't hate people, but there are people I really really dislike. It's funny though, there are some people who I have good reason to hate, and instead I just feel bad for them (Not in a holier-than-thou way). My friend was murdered a few years ago and, I dislike the man who killed her, don't get me wrong, but I'm at the point where I just wonder what happened to him that could have made him do what he did. Hopefully that made sense...
Bad as it sounds I hate my mother. She used DCFS to keep my father away from me when I was a child, and sided with my ex in a custody battle because she didn't like my fiance. Did I mantion that he didn't even bother to ask to see her until he decided he wanted to take her from me, and I'm pretty sure my mother got him involved in order to get rid of FI.
I hate my Aunt, she has for years stated that have kids was the worse thing that anyone could do, but then would get upset about not having kids when my grandmother would say that she loved having grandchildren. The day my Grandmother passed away, which was my father's birthday and anniversary, she went to my Grandmother's house and took anything that she could sell. Everything that my Grandmother had saved for me was gone and sold on eBay, stuff from my Grandfather was sold. She even took all the copies of their wedding. I have one picture of my Grandfather and only a few of my Grandmother. I have to invite her to the wedding as I need a picture from my grandparents wedding, and asking her without inviting her would be rude.
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[QUOTE]I hate my sister in law. She treated my whole family like shiit after my brother was killed and blocked all contact we had with their kids. I also hate her father who told my dad at my brother's funeral "At least your son can properly provide for my daughter now." I really dislike a lot of people, but I'm pretty sure they are the only two I hate.
Posted by kcscejal[/QUOTE]
Oh my GOD. WTF?
[QUOTE]I hate my sister in law. She treated my whole family like shiit after my brother was killed and blocked all contact we had with their kids. I also hate her father who told my dad at my brother's funeral "At least your son can properly provide for my daughter now." I really dislike a lot of people, but I'm pretty sure they are the only two I hate.
Posted by kcscejal[/QUOTE]
Oh my gosh. Kcs that's a horrible story. I cannot believe that he said that to you. I think it's perfectly acceptable for you to hate him. I'm so sorry about your brother :-(
I honestly can't think of anyone that I hate. There are people who drive me batty and I find obnoxious but I don't hate them. I think it's okay to hate people and some people deserve to be hated. I just am lucky that I haven't come across people like that yet.
ETA: I think I don't know how I define hate. If we're defining it as people we'd gladly never see again then yes I have a few of those. If we're defining it as someone we'd wish horrible things on then I don't have those. Unless strangers count because I'd wish bad things on some of the people you guys are talking about.
She not only believed him, but she told other people about it. She made it so that I was completely excluded from group activities with our friends for a long time. I was really depressed about the whole thing, and I didn't understand what was going on for at least a year after it started happening. Finally, one of my best friends stood up and said, "You know what, I'm not going if K (me, not the other gir, we're both K, sorry) isn't invited. It hurts her feelings and I'm not participating anymore." Another friend followed suit and basically the group split in half. Of the 3 friends I lost, I have one of them back now and I don't want K or the other girl back, but I still hate K for what she did. It hurt me a lot that she a) didn't know me well enough to know I wouldn't spread false rumors behind her back, b) was willing to tell other people I'd done it without a lick of proof and c) tried to turn all of my friends against me and succeeded temporarily with 1 of them and permanently with the other. Also, after finding out what a horrible person J is (he stole from his family countless times, stole from her family, hid his addiction from her, etc) she still doesn't concede that maybe he was lying and I didn't do anything wrong.
Also, to be clear, I do NOT think addicts are horrible people in general. But J is, and he was horrible long before his addicton started.
ETA - Whoops, that was long! Sorry!
"Smash's balls are the biggest balls of them all." -AATB
I hate the tramp who got her hooks into my H. I realize that this is all his fault, he's an adult who made his own decisions. But she's just...not a nice human being.
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I don't have an issue with hating people. To me, hating someone means actively disliking them to the point where you would find satisfaction in something truly terrible happening to them. I think some people do actions that warrant that.
Personally, I don't currently hate anyone, but I really wouldn't feel bad if I did. If someone did something that cruel to me or someone I love, then they deserve that hatred. I guess that makes me a bad Christian, but oh well. But to borrow Jill's parameters, there are certainly people I loathe.
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I have a list of people I hate. I hate my uncle's wife, who is such a lying, conniving bitch. She is hanging all over my grandmother like a vulture waiting for her to die so she can steal anything she can.
I hate my best friend's BF, because that POS dared to lay a hand on her, as well as cheat on her and take her $. I've talked about him before on here.
I hate my other uncle, who is a lazy sack of shitt drunk.
I hate my ex-friend, who managed to ruin three straight birthdays for me and whose GF broke my elbow on my birthday.
I have more, but I will be brief.
My first reaction was, hell yes I hate people!
But after reading some of these stories, I got nothing.
I hate a handful of my former co-workers. One in particular gets most of my hate because he was a scumbug who told me flat out his goal was to have sex with me and he was at least twice my age with a daughter as old as I was, and then none of the supervisors did anything about the subsequent harassament. Needless to say, it can be a sticky situation if I have explain why I left that job. Also, the guy tried to get my car towed on multiple occasions, and got my number from the employee list and proceeded to call me on several occassions (some while he was at work) and not always from his phone but from the supervisors cell phone as well.
So yeah, I pretty much hate her for that. I pray for her recovery every single night but I really, really hate her right now.
I don't actively hate anyone right now. I hold a lot of anger for my dad's family and they way they treated me, my sister and mom after he died. I guess the better word is that I am hurt by their actions and lack there of. However if many of them were to pass away I'd feel something maybe not for myself but more for their immediate family. I used to think that was wrong of me but I come to terms with my feelings for them and I think they are justified.
I may one day want to have a full on relationship with them but as of right now I am comfortable with where it lies. Lately I have been a little more forthcoming with them but I tend to keep my distance and often only allow them small tidbits of my life.
[QUOTE]Ash, I don't blame you. I hate the tramp who got her hooks into my H. I realize that this is all his fault, he's an adult who made his own decisions. But she's just...not a nice human being.
Posted by baystateapple[/QUOTE]
Bay, I try not to think that about XH's whatever-she-is, but I've heard from a friend that she thinks the whole thing is funny and has made jokes about them running into me at the grocery store or Target, so I feel justified in some hatred for her, although it's ultimately XH who is the total douche.<div>
</div><div>AATB, I'm sorry to hear that your aunt has gone downhill even more. That makes me sad for your cousin.</div>
"Smash's balls are the biggest balls of them all." -AATB
[QUOTE]Bay- Sorry you're going through everything that is going on. :-(
Posted by LetsHikeToday[/QUOTE]
Me too Bay. I'm out of the loop so I don't really know what's happening but I can tell that things have been tough and I'm sorry. I hope things get better.
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I have to invite her to the wedding as I need a picture from my grandparents wedding, and asking her without inviting her would be rude.