while i am still a year out (and i'm sure most will probably think this will blow over) but i wanted some advice for the time being. my mom and i have a rocky relationship and sometimes its wonderful and other times we go weeks without speaking. Now is one of those times we are not speaking. The jist of it is she flipped out over a pizza and i ended up leaving her house (i live with my fiance in our own apt) because I couldn't stand hearing her scream and throw things. She's been verbally abusive to me and my sisters our entire life and I just don't feel at 26 years old I should have to sit there and witness it, especially when I no longer live there, so I left. Her take is that I should apologize because it was her birthday the day i just walked out, regardless of how she acted. I, on the other hand, have been the bigger person in the past when shes gotten herself involved in things that do not involve her and said I'm sorry even when shes repeatedly called me a fat, worthless, POS. I've never spoken to her or raised my voice at her EVER. So my question is, how do I handle this? Do I just keep not speaking to her? We are two of the same person: stubborn. I am going to look at dresses this week and my grandmother made me feel bad for not asking my mom, but why would I ask her after the way she has treated me? I am so hurt and have tried talking to her about this before and I honestly cannot tolerate it anymore. I think ahead also to when I will need the families addresses and I know she will be spiteful and not give them to me. She was the reason we booked the larger room at the hall because she wants everyone there and was willing to pay for those guests. Needless to say I doubt I will be getting any help (which is fine) but I am concerned about the address and the drama that will entail in the future....PLEASE HELP!