I went to bed last night at 10:00 PM to catch up a bit on sleep. FI woke me up at 2:00 AM as he loudly got into bed in some sort of drunken stupor. I'm not happy. Not happy at all. We don't keep alcohol in the apt, and he very clearly lied to my face last night when I asked him about it.
Addiction SUCKS.
In other news, it's Wednesday...which means its only two days until Friday!
Re: SA Wednesday
Went to the eye doctor yesterday. Still blind. And still too poor to afford Lasik.
angelsong21- I feel your pain, my FI consumes too much alcohol as well. Although I give him some credit he has cut it out during the week. But any type of temptation he will drink. His excuse is I like beer. Well I like cake but if I ate it everyday and had 6 pieces...well...we know what would happen..
[QUOTE]@Angel-I'm sorry! My bridesmaid who wanted to be kicked out can't answer a text. Everytime she doesn't answer it makes me more mad at her because she's the one that brought up the fact that "we live seperate lives". She also hasn't bothered to say congratulations for the houes or anything but her other "friends" got a whole status on FB. (Yea..I'm lame). We won't be friends after the wedding. I'm tired of trying to be her friend and only being an option. In other news, I got my invitations! Yay! She went up on her price...she said shipping went up. IT was like $7.00 increase so I just took my invitations and left. :D
Posted by crash2729[/QUOTE]
I have pretty low tolerance for that kind of behavior from friends or anyone for that matter. I wouldn't let it bother you too much. She's not going to be your friend after the wedding, I say move forward now and not even bother trying to contact her any more. It's negative energy you don't need right now so surround yourself with positive people instead.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: SA Wednesday : I have pretty low tolerance for that kind of behavior from friends or anyone for that matter. I wouldn't let it bother you too much. She's not going to be your friend after the wedding, I<strong> say move forward now and not even bother trying to contact her any more. </strong>It's negative energy you don't need right now so surround yourself with positive people instead.
Posted by ktwed1[/QUOTE]
Well, She's my BM so it's not really an option. <div>It would have been if I had kicked her out when she asked. Oh if I only knew what I know now. </div><div>*grumbles*</div><div>I'm putting together invitations on Thursday! *Happy dance!*</div>
[QUOTE]On that note anyone have any Ikea bookcases? I think we are going to run by there today and hope to have better success.
Posted by roseofdeborah[/QUOTE]
Bill bought some just after we started dating. They are metal and glass and look really nice. They've stood up well and we just bought a bunch of stuff from them the other day and will be putting it together this weekend.
I've had fairly good luck with Target stuff but I do know it can be hit or miss.
[QUOTE]So, I gave up swearing for Lent, and have already failed because I was talking about Hunger Games with a friend and described the movie as "Going to be blanking awesome." :/
Posted by professorscience[/QUOTE]
This is what I am giving up as well...we'll see how this works out!
Amy, so sorry to hear about this.
Kathleen, timing stinks for your "friend" to decide she no longer wants to be a part of your special day. Sorry!
[QUOTE]I will decide what to give up for Lent once I get home and evaluate my actions of the day. So far giving up facebook or<strong> chocolate for breakfast</strong> are ruled out....
Posted by cwaggoner07[/QUOTE]
<div>I might have to start trying this to get my day started right! </div>
[QUOTE]Kathleen, are you serious? She screwed up and still tried to overcharge you? Also, I don't think I ever heard the followup with your bridesmaid, so I'm sorry to hear about her. Amy -- I'm so sorry.
Posted by professorscience[/QUOTE]
Yea. She gave me the remaining balance and said "it's more because of shipping " I wasnt going to argue with her.
Re:bridesmaid- I told her I wasn't going to kick her out but if she didn't want to be a bridesmaid just let me know. She decided to stay in but rarely returns any texts or tries to make the situation any getter
You're right, Amanda. The Hunger Games IS going to be blanking awesome! J and I are considering going to see the midnight showing, which is exactly one month from today
I am sorry Kristan. I know how incredibly frustrating it can be when no one acknowledges your feelings and actions. I know you are positive though and can keep your head up. That's what FI's are there for too (and us girls) so you can vent away!
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[QUOTE]Days like today make me want to pack up my car, leave, and never look back... I need a job in Wichita Falls so I can get away from this crap.
Posted by kristan1022[/QUOTE]
This is exactly how I feel today too. :( I'm sorry you feel this way as well.
Thank you everyone for the support. He's never lied to me about it before, not that I knew. When I asked, he would openly tell me (I mean it's kind of obvious...). It was kind of obvious last night too, so when he lied to me last night and then looked me in the eyes and lied to me this morning with an overwhelmingly guilty face, I went digging. I feel terrible that I did that because I know we are supposed to respect each other's privacy but I KNEW he was lying without a doubt. I don't know that it makes it right. So he's probably really mad at me that I went through his things, but it was literally the first place I looked. I am exhauuuuusted.
Courtney, my friend has already bought our tickets for the midnight show. Apparently Tinseltown Grapevine has RIDICULOUS prices. So I'm going to be EXHAUSTED on Friday, but I'm going to be happy. I think I'll show a video. No matter what's on the calendar.
[QUOTE]Amanda, you are kidding me. Actually, I'm not shocked. I've had a billion parent conferences where parents say, "I just don't know what to do -- s/he stays up all night on that computer/xbox/playstation!"
Posted by professorscience[/QUOTE]
A couple of years ago, I had a mom tell me that she had tried discipling her child by taking things away but said that it didin't work. And then she basically asked me what I thought she should do. If I had been the parent, her daughter wouldn't have anything!!!! I also had two moms blame me for their children cheating on one of my tests. I just think that there are some parents out there who still don't know the difference between being a parent and being a friend. Your child has plenty of friends. Be a parent.
[QUOTE]I'm so excited for the Hunger Games movie too!! <strong>G2G?</strong>
Posted by TexanTreasure08[/QUOTE]
YES YES YES!!!!
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