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Re: Good Evening?

  • Shan it is really addicting. They travel around OC and other CA areas I think. It is pretty entertaining.
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    [QUOTE]OH and kalpi I sincerely hope you got my friends quote. I am sure you did, but I just didn't want to be a big asshole and say divorcing is your "thing."  I am sure its not.
    Posted by ahhhitsshannyn[/QUOTE]

    <div>I'm not kalpi, but I got it.</div><div>
    </div><div>"Divorced men are not bad men." "That's what they have on the napkins down at the club!"</div>
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  • Kalpi, I'm totally down to give you an explanation if you ever think I'm being "snarky." I mean, yes, there are times when shiit needs to be said (like to Amethyst today...) but there are other times when I might say stuff off the cuff that isn't mean to be rude and if you read it in a bitchy tone and wan't some 'splainin, I'll gladly give it to you - in a PM or in the thread or whatever.

    I love you Eagles. And Mel. And everyone in this damn thread. (Well...I think. I dont know who's on any page other than 13-15...)

    Even Chrissy says I'm nice. She thinks I'm nice enough to come stay with!
  • You know I love me some Storage Wars. Nicki, I promise to remember your birthday better than your H. Good night!
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    [QUOTE]Maybe you're nice but you deliver most things to me (and I've read you do it to others) in a condescending way. Like "be more succinct and I promise I and many others will read and interact with you more!" I get it, you and others have agreed I'm wordy so you don't want to talk to me. Plenty of other posters who I enjoy do read what I have to say, agree with me from time to time, and interact with me just fine. Not saying I couldn't stand to write less but I don't need your tone of "advice on behalf of the entire E board to help you, clueless one". That's all I'm saying.
    Posted by kalpi108[/QUOTE]
    I guess you seemed like you needed advice, and I was trying to be helpful. However, since you seem to think I'm condescending - which is far from my intention, I'll stop attempting to be nice to you then and let you lead your merry, wordy life.
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    [QUOTE]Eagles, I get it. You love LDY. So you can't see what I see. And that's fine. No worries, LDY. No more splainin necessary. If we end up getting along, great, if we don't, we don't. Sucks but not everyone can be friends. MuSu, are you good at imitating him? I've tried and I just can't do it. <strong>ETA: Or you can read it like that, LDY. You told me what gets in the way of you reading my posts or getting to know me so I was honest with you about how I read yours. You say that's not your intention so I'll take your word on it. I just told you what I think like you told me. But if you want to switch to an "eff you then" stance, that's your choice.</strong>
    Posted by kalpi108[/QUOTE]
    It's not an eff you stance, it's a "well, you think I'm condescending, I'll stop helping you out because you dont seem to get that I'm trying to be nice and help" stance.

    You're reading it as an eff you stance because you don't like me.
  • So. Hi? I think? I'm almost scared to jump in.
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  • Okay, maybe it was a BIT of an eff you stance. Sorry bout that. I was trying to make ammends and then you were all mean and stuff. I suck at people not liking me.
  • Well this is...interesting. It's not even Friday.

    And Kalpi, I think you dropped your sense of humor somewhere. Adn your ability to read things as they were intended. How the hell did you think Eagles was being anything but nice there?
    "In the old days my ass would be in your back yard picking cotton, so excuse me if I don't put much stock in how f*cking awesome the old days were." -Nuggs
  • Ha I am watching what not to wear and the poor girl said "I couldn't even get the pencil skirt over my head." o_O Girl, who taught you how to dress?

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    [QUOTE]WHIT LIKES ME TOO!!
    Posted by LDYGTR13[/QUOTE]

    <3 You were the FIRST Christmas card I addressed today!!! Except, I totally had and apostrophe fail. So, ignore that.
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  • LDY, just...don't. It's so not worth it. It's ok to not like people, promise.
    "In the old days my ass would be in your back yard picking cotton, so excuse me if I don't put much stock in how f*cking awesome the old days were." -Nuggs
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    [QUOTE]Okay well that spiraled downward. I explained to you what I read as condescending and if you say it wasn't, then I believe you. If you want to take that as "I don't like you so I don't want your well intentioned help", that could be because you don't like me? Circles. I hope we can move on and be civil since we seem to have moved further away from the eventually getting along thing :(<strong> Would never want to scare you away from saying hi, Whit.</strong>
    Posted by kalpi108[/QUOTE]

    I just don't like drama! Especially between two people that I like :) I do think you are taking what LDY is saying the wrong way, but I totally understand because I have been there. So, I hope it resolves itself.
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  • edited December 2011
    Well I felt you were being mean to me, too, so I guess that makes two of us. And I don't like being disliked either bc I'm human too. I can also play the "Blank likes me too!" game but I don't see what that does to help us understand each other better. LVB, I didn't think Eagles was trying to be not nice, she's defended LDY to me before so I was just saying I know and get that they are friends so she wouldn't perceive her comments to me the way that I do. I certainly wasn't trying to accuse her of meanness? Sorry if it seemed that way.
  • No one was mean. No one doesn't like each other. Lets call it a night. Its really going nowhere.
  • LDYGTR13LDYGTR13 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_good-evening-22?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:ac72986b-060b-41cc-b921-794a9d5201b5Post:38da5289-eb63-4fc4-b805-54b52eaaba3b">Re: Good Evening?</a>:
    [QUOTE]LDY, just...don't. It's so not worth it. It's ok to not like people, promise.
    Posted by louisvillebride21[/QUOTE]
    I dont not like her - I just think she's wordy.

    But it's over now - or i zapped the past so it had better  be.

    edited: b/c it's over
  • Why yes! I plan to try and not die on January 7th when Chrissy comes to town to play with me!
  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_good-evening-22?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:ac72986b-060b-41cc-b921-794a9d5201b5Post:38da5289-eb63-4fc4-b805-54b52eaaba3b">Re: Good Evening?</a>:
    [QUOTE]LDY, just...don't. It's so not worth it. It's ok to not like people, promise.
    Posted by louisvillebride21[/QUOTE]

    Well, I appreciated the attempt at the fresh start but it's cool.

    Agreed, Shan. It's going nowhere.

    Night, all.

    ETA: I had a lot of fun hanging out with Chrissy, I'm sure you guys will have a great time.
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    [QUOTE]LDY, just...don't. It's so not worth it. It's ok to not like people, promise.
    Posted by louisvillebride21[/QUOTE]



    I don't like most people. And I'm killing it over here.
  • Dude what the hell. I just finally opened our mail and I always get excited when my grandparents send their xmas card. We always take a big family shot at Thanksgiving and then I usually put it on my Fridge for the year. This year they sent a picture of my parents, aunt and grandparents as a group but none of us kids. WTF I LIKE TO BE VAIN AND SHOW MYSELF OFF.
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  • Who's going to go see The Girl With the Dragon Tattoo?
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  • ugh, I promise! Fresh start, Kalpi.

    Dude - i dont think I've ever had to try to tell someone I'm not mean so many times. Maybe I AM getting mean in my old age.
  • They also got my age wrong in the xmas letter. FAIL GRANDMA AND GRANDPA. Geez.
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  • I really want to, Whit! I loved the book.
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  • edited December 2011
    Wow I didn't even realize it came out tonight. Maybe we will go when we are in Vegas for Christmas.

    Mel if you tell me you don't like me one more time its on like donkey kong. I cant keep letting you mess with my feelings.
  • MEL! did you know that since whatever thread it was about wedding shoes, I've determined that I will refuse to take off my wedding shoes for anything flip flop-like or barefeet. Thought you might appreciate it.
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