Ok this is going to be a little long, sorry in advance. I have a cousin/friend who has decided not to speak to me for the last 11 days and is /was a BM in my wedding. She thinks I was putting things on FB about her and (it's always about her, rolling my eyes) emailed me that it hurt her feelings. Let me first say, I was not nor did I ever put anything on FB about her, with her name in it that was negative. I have been engaged for 18 months and she has been really negative about all of my ideas for the wedding. Most ppl think she is jealous or at least that's what they tell me. Unfortunately, my MOH lives far away so I have no one else local to do "wedding" things with me. She has also befriended my ex-husband and swore she never would. She said she would go with me for nails, appts, etc. Then changed her mind 3 times. I started doing everything by myself so I would be sure it was done and done my way. Well, now she has told my mother, her aunt, that her job was to be there and walk down the aisle. I no longer want her there! She has went out of her way to make me miserable and when I figured she wasn't speaking to me (her choice) so she wouldn't be there it was no problem. I can only imagine the tension on my special day if she shows up in her dress! I suppose she will first make an appearance at the rehearsal dinner. She really has hurt me beyond repair. And just for the record is Bi-Polar with no medication. So now I am left with a big riff in the family and the tension would be unbearable! What should I do? It would take forever to explain everything so feel free to ask questions, I really need some advice....TIA!