Long story short - my maid of honor is mad at me because my grandmother babysits maid of honor's child and maid of honor wants to claim some ridiculous amount as childcare expenses ($1200) on her taxes so she can get more money back but my grandmother is only going to sign off on what she actually paid her (about $400). I of course side with my grandmother. Since this whole thing has taken place, I haven't heard from maid of honor and I don't know if she's still going to be in my wedding. I called her once and she didn't answer or return my call. I'm not going to keep calling her and I believe that she should be calling me and my grandmother to apologize for getting upset over the law. I just need to know at this point if she's going to be in the wedding or not....