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  • NebbNebb member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_unsupportive-friends-family-ugh?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:2642d34d-c812-4a94-852f-dd8bd540f24fPost:e3444e9c-549f-4f48-bb4f-c056e9505482">Re: unsupportive friends and family. Ugh!</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: unsupportive friends and family. Ugh! : Unless, they're zombies. Slow zombies are cool. Nebb would totally back me up on that. I think.
    Posted by LessThanZero[/QUOTE]
    This is correct.
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  • HobokensFuryHobokensFury member
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    I was the last one of my friends to get engaged and feeling left out can really suck.  I was happy for my friends but deep down I was a little jealous. So your friend may be going through the same thing.  I think your parents are just watching out for you.  Although you are legally an adult at 19, you are still their baby.  You still have so much to do and experience in life.  And that's probably why they want you to wait.  When I was 19 I had been with the same guy for 5 years and was sure we were going to get married.  Good thing we didn't because we'd be divorced right now because I now know he wasn't the guy I was ment to be with. 
     
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  • LesPaulLesPaul member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_unsupportive-friends-family-ugh?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:2642d34d-c812-4a94-852f-dd8bd540f24fPost:f9b40def-2170-4453-95d6-a58f5120533c">Re: unsupportive friends and family. Ugh!</a>:
    [QUOTE]<strong> It doesn't matter what age your parents got engaged or married at. I hate when peole use that argument, "Oh, my parents and grandparents got married young, so of course it will work out for us!"</strong>
    Posted by Seshat411[/QUOTE]

    This exactly.  I was first married at 20; ex-H was 19.  Notice the terminology:  EX-H.  In hindsight, we had no business being married that young, and it was a really bad idea, even though we were married almost 16 years.  We didn't know each other well enough, and were not mature enough for marriage.  Also, marrying just because you've been together x number of years isn't good either.  Listen to what others are saying to you - some of the advice you're getting is very good. 
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