Quick background, my MOH and best friend has a twin brother. I use to be really good friends with him a few years ago. He ended up dating a girl, knocked her up, had a baby, the mama moved back east, now he never sees the child, and could care less about her. Then, he meets another girl maybe a year and a half ago. Does it right this time, proposes (after maybe 6 months), has a shotgun wedding in Vegas, and now has another baby on the way. Needless to say, my MOH doesn't get along with him and he and I are no longer really friends. Both my MOH and I cannot stand the new baby mama. Both baby mamas were crazy and he fell off the face of the earth.
So, there is a shower for his soon to be baby not this Saturday but next. I don't like his wife, she's a royal awful, immature and young b!tch. I originally said I'd go because of my MOH, that's it. I hate baby mama and I'm no longer friends with him, so I don't really care what they think of me to be quite honest.
Well, again out of respect for my MOH and her mother (our parents are friends), I invited this couple to the wedding. She sent me this long message on fb about how she couldn't come to the wedding because she works on Fridays. Since she couldn't go, he's not going to make it. I understand, people work on Fridays, but when you have a couple months notice, who doesn't ask to leave a little early? Even then, if you can't, no big deal. Don't give me the run around though. So, why can't he come? Then, she just told me she can't come to my shower either. It's not that I'm gift grabby (to be honest, I'd be really, really surprised if they even got us a gift or one that we wanted for that matter). Yet, I feel like this is what she is doing. She begs me to drive an hour away to BFE for her shower, but can't make it to my shower or wedding?!
Again, I don't even really like this girl, I just hate how this situation has gone down and it seems really rude. It's totally dumb since I don't care about them, but I'm still annoyed and I can't figure out why. I'm honestly thinking of canceling my response and not going to her shower. It would make my life a whole lot easier because I have the busiest day EVER that Saturday and I was already going to have to leave an hour or so after it started anyway.
What do you guys think? Do I need to get over it? Can I not go to the shower? Thoughts?!
ETA: I spoke to my MOH about the situation. She totally agrees, so I'm sticking to my decision. She honestly doesn't even want to go...that shows you how awesome this chick is.
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