After 2 hours of my fiances sister harassing me via text, I am emotionally spent.
Fiance's mom is hurt that I said "no parents" for the bachelorette party. My mom does not drink and I want to party hardcore. My mom is anti-alcohol so I am just not having parents. To me, the shower is for all the ladies to be at. The bachelorette is for friends only, IMO. It would not be fair if I allowed his mom to come and not my own mother. I do not want my moms feelings hurt.
My fiances sister texted me a zillion times saying that I hurt her mom's feelings and she just wants to be involved and that I will live this this regret one day. Also that it is crazy that I care about my moms feelings more than her mom. OF COURSE I DO! She is MY mom. I tried to call her to talk it out because texting is drama. She keeps ignoring the call and will only text back.
All my friends agree that if I do not want parents that is my choice. None of them had their moms at their bach parties either.
I am just emotionally spent and I feel like she is creating all of this unecessary stress for me not to mention crossing the line. I shouldn't be crying about my invite list. It is ONE party.. we can all get together another time. I am just annoyed beyond belief.