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Swazzle · June 2012

I hope she comes back. I need to hear more about how to be successful in life.

thejucheidea · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_tucked-away-in-the-closet?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:8479f415-cebe-4ed5-9ff3-270addfb59c7Post:bcd22e76-cfd8-449d-a702-74c1dab3291e">Re: Tucked away in the closet!</a>:
[QUOTE]Ah, figures the one from Jersey is the one questioning my work ethic.
Posted by ShoreThing14[/QUOTE]

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Also, in the long standing tradition of fine Southern ladies, I think I join Tarra in the thought of BLESS YOUR HEART.

ShoreThing14 · June 2012

Don't remember having singled anyone out. Anyone "insulted" or offended by my method is clearly doing things differently. I have respect for ANYONE that works hard, regardless of background, age, what have you. Wall Street? That's fantastic. Not knocking anyone, just tired of logging in and seeing the younger crowd get belittled due to age-related stereotypes. Did I snap? Yes. Should I have? Probably not, but it was only a matter of time.

Sorry if I came off as bitchy or needing to hop off my "high horse" but this isn't my first time on TK (as previously mentioned), and I'm tired of seeing some of the same people again with their ageist views and assumptions. No, it wasn't anyone on this board, before I get jumped on or quoted. I'm just tired of it because my experience with TK started off great, but some of the newcomers, particularly the older ones, coupled with the sh***y vendor issue I had on my last account, are beginning to make wedding planning feel like more work than play.

Granted, I know everyone here is stressed to high hell and back, and that's no excuse. But this is some people's (mine included) wedding haven to get feedback, support, etc. And to see comments like that, particularly those regarding age- well frankly, it's disheartening.

/rant-slash-sob-story-moment. *breathes deep*

audrewuh · June 2012

In Response to Re:Tucked away in the closet!:[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Tucked away in the closet!:Ah, figures the one from Jersey is the one questioning my work ethic. Posted by ShoreThing14 Also, in the long standing tradition of fine Southern ladies, I think I join Tarra in the thought of BLESS YOUR HEART. Posted by ahstillwell[/QUOTE]

You are a licensed southern lady because you went to cotillion and stuff.

Swazzle · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_tucked-away-in-the-closet?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:8479f415-cebe-4ed5-9ff3-270addfb59c7Post:d8cbda40-0be4-4904-8cf7-bbf231a7121e">Re: Tucked away in the closet!</a>:
[QUOTE]Don't remember having singled anyone out. Anyone "insulted" or offended by my method is clearly doing things differently. I have respect for ANYONE that works hard, regardless of background, age, what have you. Wall Street? That's fantastic. Not knocking anyone, just tired of logging in and seeing the younger crowd get belittled due to age-related stereotypes. Did I snap? Yes. Should I have? Probably not, but it was only a matter of time. Sorry if I came off as bitchy or needing to hop off my "high horse" but this isn't my first time on TK (as previously mentioned), and I'm tired of seeing some of the same people again with their ageist views and assumptions. No, it wasn't anyone on this board, before I get jumped on or quoted. I'm just tired of it because my experience with TK started off great, but some of the newcomers, particularly the older ones, coupled with the sh***y vendor issue I had on my last account, are beginning to make wedding planning feel like more work than play. Granted, I know everyone here is stressed to high hell and back, and that's no excuse. But this is some people's (mine included) wedding haven to get feedback, support, etc. And to see comments like that, particularly those regarding age- well frankly, it's disheartening. /rant-slash-sob-story-moment. *breathes deep*
Posted by ShoreThing14[/QUOTE]

So... You didn't single me out when you said "figures the one from Jersey is questioning my work ethic"?

thejucheidea · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_tucked-away-in-the-closet?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:8479f415-cebe-4ed5-9ff3-270addfb59c7Post:05c5c62e-b1e7-46d8-b998-38752eea76a0">Re:Tucked away in the closet!</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re:Tucked away in the closet!: You are a licensed southern lady because you went to cotillion and stuff.
Posted by audrewuh[/QUOTE]
Cotillion AND Athenaeum! Bitches don't know 'bout my etiquette.

Swazzle · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_tucked-away-in-the-closet?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:8479f415-cebe-4ed5-9ff3-270addfb59c7Post:1b5f108e-69d9-4c1d-a5b1-72b4dc5227e3">Re:Tucked away in the closet!</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re:Tucked away in the closet! : Cotillion AND Athenaeum! Bitches don't know 'bout my etiquette.
Posted by ahstillwell[/QUOTE]

You so fancy.

thejucheidea · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_tucked-away-in-the-closet?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:8479f415-cebe-4ed5-9ff3-270addfb59c7Post:8948f31c-9f03-49fb-8b04-fd32c82208b8">Re:Tucked away in the closet!</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re:Tucked away in the closet! : You so fancy.
Posted by rdr716[/QUOTE]
gurl u do not even kno

ShoreThing14 · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_tucked-away-in-the-closet?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:8479f415-cebe-4ed5-9ff3-270addfb59c7Post:4e83026a-53c9-45b5-b64e-5519f6653f44">Re: Tucked away in the closet!</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Tucked away in the closet! : So... You didn't single me out when you said "figures the one from Jersey is questioning my work ethic"?
Posted by rdr716[/QUOTE]

<div>
</div><div>I suppose since I didn't clearly explain myself to you, I may have seemingly singled you out. That comment stemmed from a long rant on my old account abt FH's wealthy family in Jersey having a problem with my stubborn Texan ass wanting to work full-time and not stay home and be a "kept woman". Didn't realize it didn't 'carry over' if that makes any sense.</div><div>
</div><div>But no, I did not intend to single you out, offend you, etc. Although without backstory, I could see how one could assume that.</div>

LilTexasGal · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_tucked-away-in-the-closet?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:8479f415-cebe-4ed5-9ff3-270addfb59c7Post:d8cbda40-0be4-4904-8cf7-bbf231a7121e">Re: Tucked away in the closet!</a>:
[QUOTE]Don't remember having singled anyone out. Anyone "insulted" or offended by my method is clearly doing things differently. I have respect for ANYONE that works hard, regardless of background, age, what have you. Wall Street? That's fantastic. Not knocking anyone, just tired of logging in and seeing the younger crowd get belittled due to age-related stereotypes. Did I snap? Yes. Should I have? Probably not, but it was only a matter of time. Sorry if I came off as bitchy or needing to hop off my "high horse" but this isn't my first time on TK (as previously mentioned), and I'm tired of seeing some of the same people again with their ageist views and assumptions. No, it wasn't anyone on this board, before I get jumped on or quoted. I'm just tired of it because my experience with TK started off great, but some of the newcomers, particularly the older ones, coupled with the sh***y vendor issue I had on my last account, are beginning to make wedding planning feel like more work than play. Granted, I know everyone here is stressed to high hell and back, and that's no excuse. But this is some people's (mine included) wedding haven to get feedback, support, etc. <strong>And to see comments like that, particularly those regarding age- </strong>well frankly, it's disheartening. /rant-slash-sob-story-moment. *breathes deep*
Posted by ShoreThing14[/QUOTE]

It is more so her SITUATION, not age - though believe it or not, not every 21 year old is as <em>mature</em> as you. But I mean, I am like 50, so you young 'uns shouldn't be gettin' married. If you're UNDER 25 your marriage is DOOMED to fail.

BAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHA. Okay, off to get some late night nomnoms and enjoy my vacation time.

audrewuh · June 2012

In Response to Re:Tucked away in the closet!:Don't remember having singled anyone out. Anyone "insulted" or offended by my method is clearly doing things differently. I have respect for ANYONE that works hard, regardless of background, age, what have you. Wall Street? That's fantastic. Not knocking anyone, just tired of logging in and seeing the younger crowd get belittled due to agerelated stereotypes. Did I snap? Yes. Should I have? Probably not, but it was only a matter of time.Sorry if I came off as bitchy or needing to hop off my "high horse" but this isn't my first time on TK as previously mentioned, and I'm tired of seeing some of the same people again with their ageist views and assumptions. No, it wasn't anyone on this board, before I get jumped on or quoted. I'm just tired of it because my experience with TK started off great, but some of the newcomers, particularly the older ones, coupled with the shy vendor issue I had on my last account, are beginning to make wedding planning feel like more work than play.Granted, I know everyone here is stressed to high hell and back, and that's no excuse. But this is some people's mine included wedding haven to get feedback, support, etc. And to see comments like that, particularly those regarding age well frankly, it's disheartening./rantslashsobstorymoment. breathes deep Posted by ShoreThing14 Yea, see, I'm 22 and wasn't ripped to shreds. It probably helped that I didn't come in telling everyone that I met SO when I was 19, we'd already been engaged once, but called it off because we fought too much. End of story, we would say these things to anyone, no matter what age they are. Oh, and if you're going to rip US to high Hell and say you "used to be a reg" identify yourself and what board you posted on at least. It's like someone walking into Starbucks, shitting in a trashcan and telling everyone to listen to you. Doesn't work. ETA: don't bring baggage from an old account to A NEW BOARD! Just some advice.

Swazzle · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_tucked-away-in-the-closet?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:8479f415-cebe-4ed5-9ff3-270addfb59c7Post:b177a9d4-898b-405b-ae66-64938257383d">Re: Tucked away in the closet!</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Tucked away in the closet! : I suppose since I didn't clearly explain myself to you, I may have seemingly singled you out. That comment stemmed from a long rant on my old account abt FH's wealthy family in Jersey having a problem with my stubborn Texan ass wanting to work full-time and not stay home and be a "kept woman". Didn't realize it didn't 'carry over' if that makes any sense. But no, I did not intend to single you out, offend you, etc. Although without backstory, I could see how one could assume that.
Posted by ShoreThing14[/QUOTE]

No. It doesn't carry over, nor does it make any sense.

I think I'm done with you now.

melmac86 · June 2012

Two things:

1. I now am desperately craving a cinnamon roll.

2. I now haz the sads for not knowing how to sew. This girl here can't even sew a damn button on anything. Plus, I hate cooking. It's a good thing I have a full-time job, otherwise I'd be good for nothing.

ShoreThing14 · June 2012

I will as soon as all vendor garbage is sorted out. Not doing anything that could keep me from getting my $$ back.

Edit: Can't say but I don't think hinting hurts. "Cypress, TX." That's all I'm saying

Swazzle · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_tucked-away-in-the-closet?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:8479f415-cebe-4ed5-9ff3-270addfb59c7Post:c123d00e-980d-483b-9bcb-7d8a333003db">Re: Tucked away in the closet!</a>:
[QUOTE]Two things: 1. I now am desperately craving a cinnamon roll. 2. I now haz the sads for not knowing how to sew. This girl here can't even sew a damn button on anything. Plus, I hate cooking. It's a good thing I have a full-time job, otherwise I'd be good for nothing.
Posted by melmac86[/QUOTE]

You're going to be the worst wife ever.

LilTexasGal · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_tucked-away-in-the-closet?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:8479f415-cebe-4ed5-9ff3-270addfb59c7Post:14df04d0-1c21-4352-86eb-f5a69227d756">Re:Tucked away in the closet!</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re:Tucked away in the closet!:
Yea, see, I'm 22 and wasn't ripped to shreds. It probably helped that I didn't come in telling everyone that I met SO when I was 19, we'd already been engaged once, but called it off because we fought too much. End of story, we would say these things to anyone, no matter what age they are. Oh, and if you're going to rip US to high Hell and say you "used to be a reg" identify yourself and what board you posted on at least. It's like someone walking into Starbucks, shitting in a trashcan and telling everyone to listen to you. Doesn't work. ETA: don't bring baggage from an old account to A NEW BOARD! Just some advice.
Posted by audrewuh[/QUOTE]

I forgot to tell you... I am totally against your marriage because you're 22. K THX BAI NOW.

audrewuh · June 2012

In Response to Re:Tucked away in the closet!:[QUOTE]I will as soon as all vendor garbage is sorted out. Not doing anything that could keep me from getting my back.Edit: Can't say but I don't think hinting hurts. "Cypress, TX." That's all I'm saying :3 Posted by ShoreThing14[/QUOTE]

I'm curious. What was your old sn and what board did you post on?

Swazzle · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_tucked-away-in-the-closet?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:8479f415-cebe-4ed5-9ff3-270addfb59c7Post:b71ac455-a90d-443b-80b6-c986e9fcdc20">Re: Tucked away in the closet!</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Tucked away in the closet! : Ummm, hello? We don't know you or your old SN or your old rant. How in any realm of possibility could we know about your SO's family? And you said it right after her comment. I hate it when people have someecard sigs. Oh that's not you RDR, it's off this thing I said to my mom on my cell phone which you don't know about.
Posted by hellotarra[/QUOTE]

IT ALL MAKES SENSE NOW!

TheMutleys · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_tucked-away-in-the-closet?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:8479f415-cebe-4ed5-9ff3-270addfb59c7Post:b177a9d4-898b-405b-ae66-64938257383d">Re: Tucked away in the closet!</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Tucked away in the closet! : I suppose since I didn't clearly explain myself to you, I may have seemingly singled you out. That comment stemmed from a long rant on my old account abt FH's wealthy family in Jersey having a problem with my stubborn Texan ass wanting to work full-time and not stay home and be a "kept woman". Didn't realize it didn't 'carry over' if that makes any sense.

But no, I did not intend to single you out, offend you, etc. Although without backstory, I could see how one could assume that.
Posted by ShoreThing14[/QUOTE]

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melmac86 · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_tucked-away-in-the-closet?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:8479f415-cebe-4ed5-9ff3-270addfb59c7Post:82b3a674-90da-4373-864c-20afa837bd39">Re: Tucked away in the closet!</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Tucked away in the closet! : You're going to be the worst wife ever.
Posted by rdr716[/QUOTE]

Hey, now. Don't go as far as to say the WORST wife ever. I can clean cat litter and watch sports with the best of 'em. That must count for something.

Swazzle · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_tucked-away-in-the-closet?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:8479f415-cebe-4ed5-9ff3-270addfb59c7Post:d4f09770-76d1-46cf-823e-fc10ef72d545">Re: Tucked away in the closet!</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Tucked away in the closet! : Hey, now. Don't go as far as to say the WORST wife ever. I can clean cat litter and watch sports with the best of 'em. That must count for something.
Posted by melmac86[/QUOTE]

Nope. Can't sew? You might as well just retire to the nunnery.

ShoreThing14 · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_tucked-away-in-the-closet?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:8479f415-cebe-4ed5-9ff3-270addfb59c7Post:b71ac455-a90d-443b-80b6-c986e9fcdc20">Re: Tucked away in the closet!</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Tucked away in the closet! : Ummm, hello? We don't know you or your old SN or your old rant. How in any realm of possibility could we know about your SO's family? And you said it right after her comment. I hate it when people have someecard sigs. Oh that's not you RDR, it's off this thing I said to my mom on my cell phone which you don't know about.
Posted by hellotarra[/QUOTE]

<div>
</div><div>Valid argument, you're right. But it's not like I sit down and date everything I ever said. Tthe switch between accounts is about a week old now, and I thought the convo with FH's famliy had taken place after the fact. </div><div>
</div><div>Most ppl have put together who I am already, and it didn't occur to me to reference the family incident since it didn't occur to me that it had taken place before the switch. Honest mistake.</div>

melmac86 · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_tucked-away-in-the-closet?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:8479f415-cebe-4ed5-9ff3-270addfb59c7Post:799c58ea-a593-465e-89c5-abe8ca8ce8c0">Re: Tucked away in the closet!</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Tucked away in the closet! : Nope. Can't sew? You might as well just retire to the nunnery.
Posted by rdr716[/QUOTE]

Fine, but only if said nunnery allows the sex.

ShoreThing14 · June 2012

If I could talk about the vendor issue or my old account at this point, I would, solely to shut you up about it. Yes, the new account was created yesterday. My last interaction on TK (prior to "barreling" in here and my NC post) was about a week ago on the old account when the issue first arose.

Glad you're such a thorough investigator though, WHEW! *wipes single bead of sweat off of forehead*

thejucheidea · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_tucked-away-in-the-closet?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:8479f415-cebe-4ed5-9ff3-270addfb59c7Post:8aca7140-52c9-4f20-8c56-1f1b3892617b">Re: Tucked away in the closet!</a>:
[QUOTE]If I could talk about the vendor issue or my old account at this point, I would, solely to shut you up about it. Yes, the new account was created yesterday. My last interaction on TK (prior to "barreling" in here and my NC post) was about a week ago on the old account when the issue first arose. Glad you're such a thorough investigator though, WHEW! *wipes single bead of sweat off of forehead*
Posted by ShoreThing14[/QUOTE]
man you are so mysterious.

audrewuh · June 2012

In Response to Re:Tucked away in the closet!:[QUOTE]If I could talk about the vendor issue or my old account at this point, I would, solely to shut you up about it.nbsp;Yes, the new account was created yesterday. My last interaction on TK prior to "barreling" in here and my NC post was about a week ago on the old account when the issue first arose.Glad you're such a thorough investigator though, WHEW! wipes single bead of sweat off of forehead Posted by ShoreThing14[/QUOTE]

Did you post on the Houston board? I report a lot of vendors over there.

ShoreThing14 · June 2012

YUSH! We have a winner!

Can't say my old un yet until it's resolved, but that's why I mentioned Cypress, TX earlier.

jaycee7389 · June 2012

I can't even figure out what your issue is OP...errrr random person who has taken over the thread.

cu97tiger · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_tucked-away-in-the-closet?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:8479f415-cebe-4ed5-9ff3-270addfb59c7Post:8aca7140-52c9-4f20-8c56-1f1b3892617b">Re: Tucked away in the closet!</a>:
[QUOTE]If I could talk about the vendor issue or my old account at this point, I would, solely to shut you up about it. Yes, the new account was created yesterday. My last interaction on TK (prior to "barreling" in here and my NC post) was about a week ago on the old account when the issue first arose. Glad you're such a thorough investigator though, WHEW! *wipes single bead of sweat off of forehead*
Posted by ShoreThing14[/QUOTE]

<div>You annoy the cra..... zzzzzzzz</div>

Swazzle · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_tucked-away-in-the-closet?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:8479f415-cebe-4ed5-9ff3-270addfb59c7Post:9604e445-a0df-47a5-b634-76d41e32fcb7">Re: Tucked away in the closet!</a>:
[QUOTE]YUSH! We have a winner! Can't say my old un yet until it's resolved, but that's why I mentioned Cypress, TX earlier.
Posted by ShoreThing14[/QUOTE]

So you post on the Houston board and we here on NEY were supposed to know that your FIs family is rich & lives in NJ?

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