I'm having a bit of a dilemma. FI & I have chosen to have our wedding be children-free. We do have a son who will be 21 months old in May & he is our ring bearer. The family I babysit for has offered to have Lucas spend the night there the night of the wedding. So, we would have my parents drop him off at their house on the way to the reception. But, is it rude to not invite the family I babysit for? It'd be like not inviting my "boss." Should I invite them & find another sitter for Lucas, or take them up on their offer & not invite them to the wedding?