My fiance and I have decided we want a small, simple, basic wedding. In deciding this we have chosen to each have only 1 attendant. I've always known who my MOH was going to be, and that hasn't changed. My problem is that another very close friend of mine is upset that I am not having more Bridesmaids as she expected to be one of them. I am having a hard time explaining to her that this is our wedding and this is what we decided to do. She doesn't understand why we don't want a big, over the top wedding with 300 guests and 10 attendants each. She is not upset that she is not the MOH, just that I'm not have more Bridesmaids. What to do . . . ??