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LisaTyler1984 · February 2010

Just because I would feel embarrassed for not covering my plate, doesn't mean others should be embarrassed.

Kind of like how Kati0105 isn't embarrassed for her poor dye job and cheap pink dress. I would be embarrassed by this.

I would also be embarrassed by ricksang's crude language and elementary vocabulary and cew's poor sense of humor and arguing skills.

Not to mention, Katie0725's 8th grade level reading comprehension.

If you wanted immaturity, there is is. I'm sorry you guys aren't happy brides; it's a real shame.

Kati0105 · February 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_out-of-state-wedding-etiquette?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3ad92993-2cea-4141-97c6-55d9363df1a1Post:b2da4308-dc7b-49e5-abba-c55e149fd636">Re: Out of State Wedding Etiquette</a>:
[QUOTE]Just because I would feel embarrassed for not covering my plate, doesn't mean others should be embarrassed. Kind of like how Kati0105 isn't embarrassed for her poor dye job and cheap pink dress. I would be embarrassed by this. I would also be embarrassed by ricksang's crude language and elementary vocabulary and cew's poor sense of humor and arguing skills. Not to mention, Katie0725's 8th grade level reading comprehension. If you wanted immaturity, there is is. I'm sorry you guys aren't happy brides; it's a real shame.
Posted by LisaTyler1984[/QUOTE]

Ok, bye now! You'll be missed! XOXO

kate51485 · February 2010

Not to mention, Katie0725...

it seems that kate#s and sarah#s have been morphed into one person. this is the greatest day of my life, I am like 8 million times smarter than I used to be AND have another foxy FI!

[Deleted User] · February 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_out-of-state-wedding-etiquette?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3ad92993-2cea-4141-97c6-55d9363df1a1Post:b2da4308-dc7b-49e5-abba-c55e149fd636">Re: Out of State Wedding Etiquette</a>:
[QUOTE]Just because I would feel embarrassed for not covering my plate, doesn't mean others should be embarrassed. Kind of like how Kati0105 isn't embarrassed for her poor dye job and cheap pink dress. I would be embarrassed by this. I would also be embarrassed by ricksang's crude language and elementary vocabulary and cew's poor sense of humor and arguing skills. Not to mention, Katie0725's 8th grade level reading comprehension. If you wanted immaturity, there is is. I'm sorry you guys aren't happy brides; it's a real shame.
Posted by LisaTyler1984[/QUOTE]

You're cute when you're mad.

sarah0725 · February 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_out-of-state-wedding-etiquette?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3ad92993-2cea-4141-97c6-55d9363df1a1Post:b2da4308-dc7b-49e5-abba-c55e149fd636">Re: Out of State Wedding Etiquette</a>:
[QUOTE]Just because I would feel embarrassed for not covering my plate, doesn't mean others should be embarrassed. Kind of like how Kati0105 isn't embarrassed for her poor dye job and cheap pink dress. I would be embarrassed by this. I would also be embarrassed by ricksang's crude language and elementary vocabulary and cew's poor sense of humor and arguing skills. Not to mention, Katie0725's 8th grade level reading comprehension. If you wanted immaturity, there is is. I'm sorry you guys aren't happy brides; it's a real shame.
Posted by LisaTyler1984[/QUOTE]

Am I Katie0725? If so, I better quit grad school, because there's no way I'm going to pass my comps with such poor reading comprehension. *cries*

NuggetBrain · February 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_out-of-state-wedding-etiquette?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:3ad92993-2cea-4141-97c6-55d9363df1a1Post:b2da4308-dc7b-49e5-abba-c55e149fd636">Re: Out of State Wedding Etiquette</a>:
[QUOTE]Just because I would feel embarrassed for not covering my plate, doesn't mean others should be embarrassed. Kind of like how Kati0105 isn't embarrassed for her poor dye job and cheap pink dress. I would be embarrassed by this. I would also be embarrassed by ricksang's crude language and elementary vocabulary and cew's poor sense of humor and arguing skills. Not to mention, Katie0725's 8th grade level reading comprehension. If you wanted immaturity, there is is. I'm sorry you guys aren't happy brides; it's a real shame.
Posted by LisaTyler1984[/QUOTE]

I would feel embarassed if I was your mother, for shooting such a nasty little twatwaffle out of my uterus. Seriously. Just because we call you on your desire to have everybody cover their plate and make buttloads of money off of your wedding doesn't mean we aren't happy brides. It just means that we don't suck. Like you.

tidetravel · February 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_out-of-state-wedding-etiquette?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:3ad92993-2cea-4141-97c6-55d9363df1a1Post:b2da4308-dc7b-49e5-abba-c55e149fd636">Re: Out of State Wedding Etiquette</a>:
[QUOTE]Just because I would feel embarrassed for not covering my plate, doesn't mean others should be embarrassed. Kind of like how Kati0105 isn't embarrassed for her poor dye job and cheap pink dress. I would be embarrassed by this. I would also be embarrassed by ricksang's crude language and elementary vocabulary and cew's poor sense of humor and arguing skills. Not to mention, Katie0725's 8th grade level reading comprehension. If you wanted immaturity, there is is. I'm sorry you guys aren't happy brides; it's a real shame.
Posted by LisaTyler1984[/QUOTE]

Oh shiit.

LisaTyler1984 · February 2010

Damn it! Talk about reading comprehension! See that karma? Defeated!

It's been a pleasure being the message board etiquette villain.

Your welcome and Goodnight.

ootmother2 · February 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_out-of-state-wedding-etiquette?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3ad92993-2cea-4141-97c6-55d9363df1a1Post:ae24e4bd-0434-494b-80bf-07f9020eea31">Re: Out of State Wedding Etiquette</a>:
[QUOTE]Damn it! Talk about reading comprehension! See that karma? Defeated! It's been a pleasure being the message board etiquette villain. Your welcome and Goodnight.
Posted by LisaTyler1984[/QUOTE]

your = you're

ywia

[Deleted User] · February 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_out-of-state-wedding-etiquette?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3ad92993-2cea-4141-97c6-55d9363df1a1Post:ae24e4bd-0434-494b-80bf-07f9020eea31">Re: Out of State Wedding Etiquette</a>:
[QUOTE]Damn it! Talk about reading comprehension! See that karma? Defeated! It's been a pleasure being the message board etiquette villain. Your welcome and Goodnight.
Posted by LisaTyler1984[/QUOTE]

You forgot to bow.

LisaTyler1984 · February 2010

Defeated again!

You're Welcome.

Though, I will excuse myself from that one. I have a fever- but good catch.

ootmother2 · February 2010

btw, check Narraganset. There are several places on rte 1 and over on 138 by URI

good luck

LisaTyler1984 · February 2010

Thanks; will do!

pinkpinot · February 2010

UGH Lisa, just ignore those girls. Like, half of them are already married hags. Ewwww.

aallenba · February 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_out-of-state-wedding-etiquette?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:3ad92993-2cea-4141-97c6-55d9363df1a1Post:9def6356-4374-4a87-8847-a1870449e273">Re: Out of State Wedding Etiquette</a>:
[QUOTE] It's standard etiquette to give a gift that covers your head.
Posted by LisaTyler1984[/QUOTE]

So do you announce what you've paid pp so they know they've brought enough $$ to cover their plates? Does this info go in your invites?

tlv204 · February 2010

You are making very crass and incorrect assumptions about what other brides want.

You're a jerk. Ew indeed.

banana468 · February 2010

I think she also made some incorrect assumptions on our happiness.

Because if you give etiquette advice that isn't what the person wanted to hear, you must be sad.

sarah0725 · February 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_out-of-state-wedding-etiquette?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3ad92993-2cea-4141-97c6-55d9363df1a1Post:9752d3cb-0bc5-4839-b7e2-541810ee8610">Re: Out of State Wedding Etiquette</a>:
[QUOTE]I think she also made some incorrect assumptions on our happiness. Because if you give etiquette advice that isn't what the person wanted to hear, you must be sad.
Posted by banana468[/QUOTE]

I know that the idea of being a gracious host makes me sad. I sit at home and cry all day about it.

JessAndTrav · February 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_out-of-state-wedding-etiquette?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3ad92993-2cea-4141-97c6-55d9363df1a1Post:d1078b30-5aaf-41a2-b1a6-956f5baf5d3c">Re: Out of State Wedding Etiquette</a>:
[QUOTE]Defeated again! You're Welcome. Though, I will excuse myself from that one. I have a fever- but good catch. 
Posted by LisaTyler1984[/QUOTE]

I can spell when I'm sick and when I'm not. You're not excused by me.

banana468 · February 2010

Lisa, you may only be calling more attention to the post if you delete it. That's an unfortunate part of the way the forum works.

It also doesn't really do many favors if you delete since your OP is quoted.

beatlesgirl25 · February 2010

Why do people think it sends a bigger, better message to delete the OP when it's been quoted, rather than just continuing to post at the end of threads in a civilized, intelligent manner? Because it doesn't.

mags0607 · February 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_out-of-state-wedding-etiquette?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3ad92993-2cea-4141-97c6-55d9363df1a1Post:bd4230a1-0f07-427b-940c-f9798fa361c5">Re: Out of State Wedding Etiquette</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Out of State Wedding Etiquette : I would feel embarassed if I was your mother, for shooting such a nasty little twatwaffle out of my uterus. Seriously. Just because we call you on your desire to have everybody cover their plate and make buttloads of money off of your wedding doesn't mean we aren't happy brides. It just means that we don't suck. Like you.
Posted by NuggetBrain[/QUOTE]

Nugget, I <3 You, this has got to be my new favorite word.

As for the rest of this, well you guys said it all.... you mean, unhappy, brides.

LisaTyler1984 · February 2010

I deleted the post because I found a great majority of the responses unreasonably abusive. If you thought I had poor etiquette, just say so. But, to call me shallow, selfish and basically a horrible person off the bat is absurd and immature and it DOES come across as very SAD to me. There are better ways to phrase things than the way many of you did here (which frankly resembled a JHS slam book).

I hope you all have (although most of you already HAD) great weddings; I am ending this here.

JessAndTrav · February 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_out-of-state-wedding-etiquette?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3ad92993-2cea-4141-97c6-55d9363df1a1Post:b3efcba9-9584-46f7-b65b-64a4a1751e35">Re: DELETED</a>:
[QUOTE]I deleted the post because I found a great majority of the responses unreasonably abusive. If you thought I had poor etiquette, just say so. But, to call me shallow, selfish and basically a horrible person off the bat is absurd and immature and it DOES come across as very SAD to me. There are better ways to phrase things than the way many of you did here (which frankly resembled a JHS slam book). I hope you all have (although most of you already HAD) great weddings; I am ending this here.
Posted by LisaTyler1984[/QUOTE]

WAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!1!1!!!1!!!!1!!

I was hoping you'd stay forever.

Unreasonably abusive? No.

Honest? Yes.

You're just pissed because we didn't support your method of thinking. You came to an etiquette board, not the "We'll support your shitty idea!!!11!!!" board. Get a grip and definitely get off your high horse.

sarah0725 · February 2010

You may have found our responses offensive, but I found your posts offensive, especially your OP. Your views on money seem to show a real lack of understanding of how things are for people who aren't in your economic class, and I also balk at the thought that people would think that everyone from the tri-state area behaves in this way. When you post on a public internet forum, especially one as busy as this one, you don't get to decide what the responses will be.

banana468 · February 2010

Lisa, I don't think you're a bad person but I do think you may have been misguided in what you thought was appropriate. That's not necessarily "your" fault if it's what you were taught to believe but it seems like you still believe it.

I just hope that you do grow to understand that some of the things that you described as "etiquette" are actually unattractive social norms because of the way that people can react to them.

playtntsbpg30 · February 2010

damn 10 hrs later I missed all this.. geeez.. I really hope I get all my money back at my wedding that would pay for an awesome sex fest on a nice ship out in the middle of no where.. thanks!

ootmother2 · February 2010

waaaaaaa!

I want a do over.

janedoe1113a · February 2010

Aww...sad I missed this one.

JessAndTrav · February 2010

I suppose I have to give you a 1/2 point in credit for reposting this.

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