regarding NCV's comment earlier..
Just wanted to prepare most of the girls on here that your wedding night sex will probably not be all sorts of fireworks and butterflies. By the time we got back to the hotel room at about 2am, we were sort of drunk and TIRED BEYOND BELIEF (seriously your wedding day will make you feel like you got hit by a truck, it's a long freakin day). Yes, we did it - however, it was not great. It was more obligatory than anything. We could barely keep our eyes open! I'm sure other married ladies can attest to this. So be forewarned