Ok, so my fiancé has mentioned in the past that he doesn't really have a best friend that could serve as a bestman. He brought up the question last weeekend if girls could serve as a 'bestgirl' because his bestfriend is a girl.
I don't have anything against his friend. But I'm not necessarily comfortable about changing custom and tradition. The guys he has chosen to be in our wedding could very well serve as a bestman and I told him that.
My question is, how often has there been a wedding where a girl actually has served as a bestgirl or even where a guy has served as the man-of-honor? Those who personally dealt with it, how did you feel about it?
I know that he will probably go with what I want just to make me happy on some things but would it make me look bad if I told him how I felt?