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Wanted to share

BaesmomBaesmom
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So this morning I came in and took a look at my check. I was BUMMED. after the bills are paid and we get stuff needed for the kid, we dont have much. 
then I listened to this call where this lady is in preforeclosure. Her husband is out of work in California and she doesnt know when she can come up with the 24 thousand needed to get her loan caught up.  It put my little problem into perspective.. ITS LITTLE.  People in the world right now are going through bigger things than "not being able to do as much shopping as they want"  here i am bummed cause i cant do all of my Christmas shopping in one weekend and there are people that wont have a Christmas. There are people that might not have a HOME come Christmas time. 
Sometimes we get sooo caught up in our little problems that we forget the big picture. I am blessed. My bills are paid, my son is well taken care of, and he doesnt want for ANYTHING (except hotdogs cause we ran out last night) I am in a loving healthy relationship, and I have an amazing family. 
I just wanted to share cause sometimes we need a little reminder of how BLESSED we truley are. 
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  • egammo3egammo3
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    edited December 2011

    You're right! I was frustrated this morning because of a FMIL issue, but I realized I am stressing myself out over the little stuff, but there is somebody somewhere going through something way more difficult than me. I feel so selfish! Thank you for posting this.

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  • BaesmomBaesmom
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_wanted-share?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural Wedding BoardsForum:400Discussion:4aacf16c-92ea-4fb1-b42d-93afea1dc9dePost:4cd4d648-eb76-40cf-91ec-e560b47fec52">Re: Wanted to share</a>:
    [QUOTE]You're right! I was frustrated this morning because of a FMIL issue, but I realized I am stressing myself out over the little stuff, but there is somebody somewhere going through something way more difficult than me. <strong>I feel so selfish</strong>! Thank you for posting this.
    Posted by egammo3[/QUOTE]

    Dont feel selfish.. its human nature to feel like we do sometimes.  the thing that makes you NOT selfish is that you recognize it and fix it.  I felt so bad after hearing that call.  it made me see all i did have.  Sometimes we need that.
    Wedding Countdown Ticker When you are in love you cant fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams. ~ Dr Seuss
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  • 2010Bride2be2010Bride2be
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    edited December 2011
    Amen!!
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  • djscatdjscat
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    edited December 2011
    Thanks for sharing it puts things into perspective.  We are blessed!
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  • ejagersejagers
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_wanted-share?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural Wedding BoardsForum:400Discussion:4aacf16c-92ea-4fb1-b42d-93afea1dc9dePost:9aec66b1-aff8-4eb8-abeb-0c3bf60a2a6a">Re: Wanted to share</a>:
    [QUOTE]<strong>Thanks for sharing it puts things into perspective.  We are blessed!
    </strong>Posted by djscat[/QUOTE]

    This exactly!!!
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  • sheikscorpio88sheikscorpio88
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    edited December 2011
    So true!
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  • japonica334japonica334
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    edited December 2011
    You said that beautifully! It is easy to forget that somebodys troubles are greater than our own. We definitely have alot to be thankful for!
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