Hi ladies! I was hoping you could give me some advice. My best friend and I are both getting married next spring. My wedding is planned for May 11th and hers is April 26th. The issue here is that I've had most of my vendors booked since february and she just booked her first vendor this week. My question is, when should I send out my save the dates? I'm afraid that if I wait too long and send them out after her everyone will think I planned mine right after hers on purpose and am being rude. We have a lot of overlap on our guest lists. What do you think?