I posted this in the "Wedding Party" forum too, but you ladies are so wise I had to post here too....
So FI's cousin came over last night and we were talking about the wedding and he bluts out all excitedly: "So I know I'm your best man right?!" Babe actually laughed out loud, until he realized his cousin was serious then he got serious too and said "C'mon man, you know my twin is gonna be my best man."
His cousins response: "Well, I know I better be in the WP!"
Babe response: "Why don't you just pay for everything that way we can make sure we have everything the way YOU want."
Cousin: (looking confused) "seriously tho, I'm not a grooms man."
Babe: "The wedding is more than a year away, but if you must know, my GM will be D (his twin), D2 (his older brother) and S (his older cousin)."
His cousin was pissed about this and left b/c Babe hadn't chose him as a GM.
First off: How rude to put someone in that position and second, Babe is trying to figure out how to "make things right"... Any suggestions?