I am having a big dilemia and for some reason cannot make a decision. My fiance has 4 possible groomsmen and I have 8 possible bridesmaids. Mine include: my sister, fiance's 2 sisters, my cousin and my 4 very close friends. I feel like if I do not include all 8 feelings will be hurt. So I am trying to decide...should I just have my sister and my fiance just have his 1 groomsmen? The wedding will be about 130-150 people (outdoor at a ranch). I am 31 and my fiance is 32, so I think it may be a little ridiculous to have such a large bridal party at our age. First marriage for us both, but still feel it would be odd. Plus, if I did 8 bridesmaids it would really look odd with 4 groomsmen...Thoughts? I have been going back and forth for a month and really need an outside opinion on what to do...HELP!