I have a prayer request... for myself. I'm trying to decided whether or not I'm going to cancel our current wedding plans and go with something very small, just immediate family and our wedding party and their SOs. It would be 13-16 people, depending on who is in a relationship at the time. It would cut costs a lot, which would allow us to do more that we want to do in life in the next few years. It would majorly cut stress. But part of me is also terrified of disappointing people (no STDs were sent, just word of mouth, and no parties have been held). I'm also scared that I could regret it later on about not having a bigger wedding to have people ooh and ahh over us. But then I think- would I also regret the big wedding and spending more than we have and not being able to go on the trip we really want to before we have kids when it won't be a possibility? I just don't know, and I have to make the decision by the end of the week since we are sticking with our date of 4-6-13. So, I just ask if you have a second, to shoot up a prayer for me to have peace about which situation I should go with!
Also- if it was you... what would you do? Opinions?