In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_sunday-evening-7?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:f95c2c4c-f120-4371-be96-8ad26ef4be22Post:4eb2da74-9fe4-475a-a9b3-736ed94e0012">Re: Sunday Evening</a>: [QUOTE]Muni posted a public thread about a GTG that was for her and a couple of other NC knotties only. Steffiii saw and and said she wanted to go. LDY posted a rude response to this and was flamed in FFF, as was MUNI, for not keeping the thing private among the invitees, since she wasn't invited by design. MUNI accepted the responsibility for the whole thing. This was a month or so ago. Lizie, thanks! <strong>we don't want to block the view of the desert and mountains from the guests(or us), and we also don't want to block the stars overhead.</strong> I just don't want the space to be entirely bare, since we aren't doing a unity ceremony or anything that would need a table. Posted by zizibet[/QUOTE]
<div> </div><div>Gosh! That sounds gorgeous!</div>
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_sunday-evening-7?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:f95c2c4c-f120-4371-be96-8ad26ef4be22Post:087451ab-7a94-40a4-bb5a-c5db6cccdb96">Re: Sunday Evening</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Sunday Evening : Got it, and accepted. Love your new sig by the way. Posted by ski2play[/QUOTE]
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_sunday-evening-7?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:f95c2c4c-f120-4371-be96-8ad26ef4be22Post:faa3967d-027c-420d-afb4-9acbbfcf5fc5">Re: Sunday Evening</a>: [QUOTE]Ooh, KWills is from NC, too, right? Good call. She's also a nutjob.. (Hi, KWills!) I have no problem with Steffi talking about anal. <strong>That was actually one of the tamer sex threads.</strong> Posted by specialk84[/QUOTE]
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_sunday-evening-7?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:f95c2c4c-f120-4371-be96-8ad26ef4be22Post:43045a79-c691-4066-8af6-53f11a740fdb">Re: Sunday Evening</a>: [QUOTE]Also at the time of the G2G thread Steffi had like 23 posts. Posted by Beachy730[/QUOTE]
<div>And had had at least two dramatic explosions, LDY and I both had pegged her as a troll.</div><div> </div><div>I'm back in this universe again, hello all</div>
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_sunday-evening-7?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:f95c2c4c-f120-4371-be96-8ad26ef4be22Post:c82e12b8-21e3-41ad-8582-a6d40f92d133">Re: Sunday Evening</a>: [QUOTE]Admar, pictures please, and a personal showing when I come down to Florida this fall. You are getting so freaking close to sweet freedom. I bet you can taste it. zizibet, I think it sounds romantic. Is your ceremony at dusk or when it is totally dark out? Posted by ski2play[/QUOTE]
<div>What part of Florida are you coming to?</div>
"Halloween may have loose women scantily clad... But Christmas has a pregnant virgin.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_sunday-evening-7?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:f95c2c4c-f120-4371-be96-8ad26ef4be22Post:1a0f6ed4-9aa6-447d-98a4-a2d6065c34f4">Re: Sunday Evening</a>: [QUOTE]I was bothered when she said she guilted her FI into duty sex when he was having some sort of issues and didn't want it as much as she did. Posted by Loopyseven[/QUOTE]
<div>What? That whole relationship sounds very unhealthy. </div>
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_sunday-evening-7?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:f95c2c4c-f120-4371-be96-8ad26ef4be22Post:1a0f6ed4-9aa6-447d-98a4-a2d6065c34f4">Re: Sunday Evening</a>: [QUOTE]I was bothered when she said she guilted her FI into duty sex when he was having some sort of issues and didn't want it as much as she did. Posted by Loopyseven[/QUOTE]
It was just too much, too soon with her. The whole 600 cal a day diet when she has Lupus or what ever she has. Then the recent junk food stuff. I figured maybe she got off to a bad start, but then the cray-cray came out.
ETA, oh yeah, the guilt sex thing. That's just wrong.
Plus I wasn't sure how, if a guy is having issues - certain conditions can be brought into being through the use of guilt? I would think that would be at cross purposes to your ultimate goal.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_sunday-evening-7?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:f95c2c4c-f120-4371-be96-8ad26ef4be22Post:127e0da4-9bad-4d14-b876-cbf2a9212b47">Re: Sunday Evening</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Sunday Evening : What? That whole relationship sounds very unhealthy. Posted by ArynBaker[/QUOTE]
<div>Oh yeah. There aren't words for how unhealthy that relationship is (unless she's full of schitt about it). They don't have any opposite sex friends and don't spend their free time apart, ever. Even while shitting.</div>
Yeah I thought the reaction to the NC GTG thing was an overreaction (I think I said as much at the time). I can understand why they wouldn't want some random person there. And I'm not much for a coddling vibe here. Not to rehash it too much...
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_sunday-evening-7?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:f95c2c4c-f120-4371-be96-8ad26ef4be22Post:f87c8c6a-9f48-468f-a699-3dc29e76099b">Re: Sunday Evening</a>: [QUOTE]Plus I wasn't sure how, if a guy is having issues - certain conditions can be brought into being through the use of guilt? I would think that would be at cross purposes to your ultimate goal. Posted by Loopyseven[/QUOTE]<div> </div><div>I didn't read it like that. I read it like he was going through a dry spell...FI has his, when he's too tired or what ever, but I understand that. I'd never try to guilt him into sex. Replenish BOB's batteries or suck it up and go without, don't guilt the person who you love most in the world into sex. It's mean and manipulative.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_sunday-evening-7?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:f95c2c4c-f120-4371-be96-8ad26ef4be22Post:f2045da7-1fbd-4ca0-88f3-86033870c028">Re: Sunday Evening</a>: [QUOTE]Yeah I thought the reaction to the NC GTG thing was an overreaction (I think I said as much at the time). I can understand why they wouldn't want some random person there. And I'm not much for a coddling vibe here. Not to rehash it too much... Posted by daffodil_jill[/QUOTE]
<div>But we have to be nice to the newbs who might be trolls. Even if it means getting bear maced at the restaurant.</div>
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_sunday-evening-7?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:f95c2c4c-f120-4371-be96-8ad26ef4be22Post:f43cad57-a6af-41a3-bf1c-36ebb81d740a">Re: Sunday Evening</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Sunday Evening : What part of Florida are you coming to? Posted by adamar15[/QUOTE]
North Ft Myers Beach specifically, but we are driving down with the truck from New York so we can go pretty much anywhere along the way down. Coming back, we will need to stick to major roads since we will be towing a 38' boat. Gonna be a road trip and then some. H expects that I will be doing some of the driving, Ha Ha to that, me driving a dodge duel axle with a big ass boat behind it. I crinch at the thought of it!
I think bragging about having a serious disease makes it harder for people who have similar diseases to be taken seriously. As many of you know, that pisses me off to no end.
Re: Sunday Evening
[QUOTE]Muni posted a public thread about a GTG that was for her and a couple of other NC knotties only. Steffiii saw and and said she wanted to go. LDY posted a rude response to this and was flamed in FFF, as was MUNI, for not keeping the thing private among the invitees, since she wasn't invited by design. MUNI accepted the responsibility for the whole thing. This was a month or so ago. Lizie, thanks! <strong>we don't want to block the view of the desert and mountains from the guests(or us), and we also don't want to block the stars overhead.</strong> I just don't want the space to be entirely bare, since we aren't doing a unity ceremony or anything that would need a table.
Posted by zizibet[/QUOTE]
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</div><div>Gosh! That sounds gorgeous!</div>
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Sunday Evening : Got it, and accepted. Love your new sig by the way.
Posted by ski2play[/QUOTE]
Thanks. Ditto on the pic. I love the top hat too.
[QUOTE]Ooh, KWills is from NC, too, right? Good call. She's also a nutjob.. (Hi, KWills!) I have no problem with Steffi talking about anal. <strong>That was actually one of the tamer sex threads.</strong>
Posted by specialk84[/QUOTE]
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<div>I apparently haven't lurked enough! </div><div>
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[QUOTE]Also at the time of the G2G thread Steffi had like 23 posts.
Posted by Beachy730[/QUOTE]
<div>And had had at least two dramatic explosions, LDY and I both had pegged her as a troll.</div><div>
</div><div>I'm back in this universe again, hello all</div>
Go for it zizibet, sounds perfectly romantic.
"Halloween may have loose women scantily clad...
But Christmas has a pregnant virgin.
Way cooler." - anna.oskar
[QUOTE]Admar, pictures please, and a personal showing when I come down to Florida this fall. You are getting so freaking close to sweet freedom. I bet you can taste it. zizibet, I think it sounds romantic. Is your ceremony at dusk or when it is totally dark out?
Posted by ski2play[/QUOTE]
<div>What part of Florida are you coming to?</div>
"Halloween may have loose women scantily clad...
But Christmas has a pregnant virgin.
Way cooler." - anna.oskar
[QUOTE]I was bothered when she said she guilted her FI into duty sex when he was having some sort of issues and didn't want it as much as she did.
Posted by Loopyseven[/QUOTE]
<div>What? That whole relationship sounds very unhealthy. </div>
[QUOTE]I was bothered when she said she guilted her FI into duty sex when he was having some sort of issues and didn't want it as much as she did.
Posted by Loopyseven[/QUOTE]
I read it later but it also bothered me.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Sunday Evening : What? That whole relationship sounds very unhealthy.
Posted by ArynBaker[/QUOTE]
<div>Oh yeah. There aren't words for how unhealthy that relationship is (unless she's full of schitt about it). They don't have any opposite sex friends and don't spend their free time apart, ever. Even while shitting.</div>
Muni, we mimiced (sp) some of your pictures at the wedding. I have only seen teazers from our pro photographer, but I think she nailed it.
Rambley Blog
adamar-you and special make me wish I have some sort of crafty talent.
[QUOTE]Plus I wasn't sure how, if a guy is having issues - certain conditions can be brought into being through the use of guilt? I would think that would be at cross purposes to your ultimate goal.
Posted by Loopyseven[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>I didn't read it like that. I read it like he was going through a dry spell...FI has his, when he's too tired or what ever, but I understand that. I'd never try to guilt him into sex. Replenish BOB's batteries or suck it up and go without, don't guilt the person who you love most in the world into sex. It's mean and manipulative.
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[QUOTE]Yeah I thought the reaction to the NC GTG thing was an overreaction (I think I said as much at the time). I can understand why they wouldn't want some random person there. And I'm not much for a coddling vibe here. Not to rehash it too much...
Posted by daffodil_jill[/QUOTE]
<div>But we have to be nice to the newbs who might be trolls. Even if it means getting bear maced at the restaurant.</div>
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Sunday Evening : What part of Florida are you coming to?
Posted by adamar15[/QUOTE]
North Ft Myers Beach specifically, but we are driving down with the truck from New York so we can go pretty much anywhere along the way down. Coming back, we will need to stick to major roads since we will be towing a 38' boat. Gonna be a road trip and then some. H expects that I will be doing some of the driving, Ha Ha to that, me driving a dodge duel axle with a big ass boat behind it. I crinch at the thought of it!