I judge

TurtlesAllTheWayDown · June 2010

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[QUOTE]Just look at jessjo - imo the way her H was nothing like Whits bullriding husbands ultimatum... and she dealt with judgement for months over her husband, her marriage, and most decisions she made. It just comes with the territory - if you divulge personal information like that, people will bring it up or ask about it or question your decisions.
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]

I know Rach and a few others have dealt with things like that too. But all the regs are aware - you and your husband will be judged by what you post on the board. I know people vent a lot and have issues, and that may only be 5% of your relationship. But if you are only posting about that 5%, it's what we have to go on.

Moneypenny424 · June 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge : It wasn't really much of a warning, but whatever.
Posted by JessAndTrav[/QUOTE]

You should be worried. I've heard of Jess sending Knot vigilantes to people's offices and whipping them with veils and fascinators.

JessAndTrav · June 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge : You should be worried. I've heard of Jess sending Knot vigilantes to people's offices and whipping them with veils and fascinators.
Posted by Moneypenny424[/QUOTE]

WHY ARE YOU ALWAYS RUINING MY PLANS?!!?!?!

damaless · June 2010

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[QUOTE]dlameass
Posted by georgia_bride09[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>This actually made me laugh.

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danieliza1127 · June 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge : I know Rach and a few others have dealt with things like that too. But all the regs are aware - you and your husband will be judged by what you post on the board. I know people vent a lot and have issues, and that may only be 5% of your relationship. But if you are only posting about that 5%, it's what we have to go on.
Posted by msmerymac[/QUOTE]

Exactly, and people have a LONG Knot memory.

AlexiaANDRobert · June 2010

I judge people that significantly slow down at EVERY intersection for a 3 mile stretch to see if that's where they need to turn. Really? Get better directions.

I judge kids that don't want to play outside because it's "too hot". You're a child. Play with the hose, I'll join you. Sweat will not kill you. And no, you don't need Gatorade after being outside for 2.5 seconds.

Femlin · June 2010

I judge my clients who claim that they can't do any type of work AT ALL for medical reasons, but they can come in here day after day to ask the same questions over and over about why their case isn't processed yet. I know not everyone has obvious illnesses, but they look able to work to me.

TurtlesAllTheWayDown · June 2010

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[QUOTE]I judge the fb group about how tattoos should be acceptable in the world place because it's just like jewelry. Right. Most offices won't let you wear ridiculous jewlery either. It's about looking professional.
Posted by andyandhillary[/QUOTE]

A lot of girls I went to high school with went to parochial schools for K-8 and we're allowed to wear ANY jewelry, period. Or nail polish. Or makeup.

A workplace can make its own rules within reason, and if you apply somewhere that doesn't like your tattoos, it's not as easy a fix as taking off your skull necklace.

Now my BFF has piercings and dyes her hair weird colors. (I used to have a facial piercing too.) My brother has a full sleeve. But they know where they can apply to work and what to do about changing their appearance. My friend can take out her piercings if she really needs to, and my brother can cover his tats with a business suit.

Rosie109 · June 2010

I judge people that slam on their brakes before they get to the turn lane rather than slowing down once they are in the turn lane.

AlexiaANDRobert · June 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge : Exactly, and people have a LONG Knot memory.
Posted by danieliza1127[/QUOTE]

That's the understatement of the year.

It's amazing what some of you gals remember.

TurtlesAllTheWayDown · June 2010

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[QUOTE]I judge people that slam on their brakes before they get to the turn lane rather than slowing down once they are in the turn lane.
Posted by Rosie109[/QUOTE]

Or people who drift to the far left of the lane before turning right. Move the eff over.

akhensley81 · June 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge : Or people who drift to the far left of the lane before turning right. Move the eff over.
Posted by msmerymac[/QUOTE]

Or people who come to a near complete stop before making a right turn off the road.

Moneypenny424 · June 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge : WHY ARE YOU ALWAYS RUINING MY PLANS?!!?!?!
Posted by JessAndTrav[/QUOTE]

Damn! I ruined the surprise. Maybe you'll have to start surprising people at the supermarket or something instead :)

ohwhynot · June 2010

Okay, this happened a while ago, but I STILL judge my kids' pediatrician for asking, right in front of my son, what we planned to do about his ears. My son looks, frankly, kind of like a volkswagon with both doors open, but his ears are perfectly healthy and fine. I honestly wouldn't even dream of surgically altering them unless he, himself, had a problem with them. And he doesn't.

Take a look at Barack Obama's ears, Dr. Idiot.

shellydiane820 · June 2010

I judge realtors who call every half hour asking if their check is in.

No, we'll call you when its in....No, we'll call you when its in....No, we'll call you when its in...No, we'll call you when its in.

You get the idea.

jasmineh7777 · June 2010

What an ass. Way to raise the boy's self confidence. Next time say, "What are you going to do about your face?" Okay, that's immature, but still.

damaless · June 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge : Damn! I ruined the surprise. Maybe you'll have to start surprising people at the supermarket or something instead :)
Posted by Moneypenny424[/QUOTE]

<div>I like surprises! :)</div>

jessjo04 · June 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge : I love whit, but im super confused by that. I still <strong>hate her husband and his stupid mustache</strong>. I know the inner workings of a relationship are unknown to anyone but them, but I wouldnt be able to get over that kind of disrespect. I want to kidnap her and make her become canadian.
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]

That seriously made me CQTM. I judge people who complain that they have to drive sooo far to get to our store, yet they live 10 minutes away. I used to drive an hour each way to work, everyday. You can handle driving 10 minutes, that does not make you special.

FutureMrsTR · June 2010

I judge my mom and my FI for giving any kind of crap about what my father wears to the wedding.

I'm on board with the Snopes thing too. When my grandfather sends stuff like that I reply to all with the Snopes article linked in there.

AlexiaANDRobert · June 2010

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[QUOTE]Okay, this happened a while ago, but I STILL judge my kids' pediatrician for asking, right in front of my son, what we planned to do about his ears. My son looks, frankly, kind of like a volkswagon with both doors open, but his ears are perfectly healthy and fine. I honestly wouldn't even dream of surgically altering them unless he, himself, had a problem with them. And he doesn't. Take a look at Barack Obama's ears, Dr. Idiot.
Posted by ohwhynot[/QUOTE]

Wow. What an assshole.

Along the same lines, I used to babysit for a family and the kids were a royal pain in the asss. The mom would send the boy to his room and he'd YELL at her "I like my room, I have a TV and video games" and she'd reply with "good for you". Yeah, awesome parenting. Anyway, she used to tell me, IN FRONT OF HER DAUGHTER, "Little Jane might be cranky tonight because she's over tired. Try to get her to go to bed early, if not, good luck." Um, yeah, thanks for giving your kid a free pass to suck at life.

shellydiane820 · June 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge : That seriously made me CQTM. I judge people who complain that they have to drive sooo far to get to our store, yet they live 10 minutes away. I used to drive an hour each way to work, everyday. You can handle driving 10 minutes, that does not make you special.
Posted by jessjo04[/QUOTE]

I would kill for a 10 minute drive to work. I have to drive a half hour to get anywhere from where I live. Now that there's road construction my entire way to town, it takes even longer.

MattsPenguin · June 2010

I judge the entire process of adopting a dog in New England. Thank goodness it's finally working out, but gosh dang it if wasn't annoying and incredibly time consuming.

I could have just picked one up in Ohio on Sunday and nobody would have thought twice.

K Byte · June 2010

I judge the hell out of people who have public facebook walls, or walls open to friends-of-friends (when you have 400+ friends that's still a hell of a lot of people who can see your stuff) despite all the warnings and hype recently about facebook privacy. It's amazing the amount of information some people have out there for everyone to see.

AlexiaANDRobert · June 2010

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[QUOTE]I judge the hell out of people who have public facebook walls, or walls open to friends-of-friends (when you have 400+ friends that's still a hell of a lot of people who can see your stuff) despite all the warnings and hype recently about facebook privacy. It's amazing the amount of information some people have out there for everyone to see.
Posted by K Byte[/QUOTE]

Agreed.

I've been watching Disney Channel a lot lately and they had a commercial/PSA about internet safety and privacy. I REALLY wish they'd put the same commercial/PSA on channels that adults watch.

TurtlesAllTheWayDown · June 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge : That seriously made me CQTM. I judge people who complain that they have to drive sooo far to get to our store, yet they live 10 minutes away. I used to drive an hour each way to work, everyday. You can handle driving 10 minutes, that does not make you special.
Posted by jessjo04[/QUOTE]

I had someone do that to me once. They said they were double charged and wanted us to do a chargeback. Okay, well you can mail, fax or drop off your bank statement. You can black out all the information except the account number and the charges. Then we'll have the proof and information we need to take care of it... She didn't trust the mail or fax and said it was "too far" for her to drive over because she lived ALL THE WAY in Beverly Hills. Last time I checked, there's one city between Hollywood and Beverly Hills, lady. It's called West Hollywood and it's 4 square miles. Do you want your $28 back or not?

kikibaby · June 2010

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[QUOTE]I judge the hell out of people who have public facebook walls, or walls open to friends-of-friends (when you have 400+ friends that's still a hell of a lot of people who can see your stuff) despite all the warnings and hype recently about facebook privacy. It's amazing the amount of information some people have out there for everyone to see.
Posted by K Byte[/QUOTE]

I don't judge this, because it makes it far easier for me to stalk said people.

TurtlesAllTheWayDown · June 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge : I don't judge this, because it makes it far easier for me to stalk said people.
Posted by kikibaby[/QUOTE]

There are definitely some people I WISH would have open FB walls.

K Byte · June 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge : Agreed. I've been watching Disney Channel a lot lately and they had a commercial/PSA about internet safety and privacy. I REALLY wish they'd put the same commercial/PSA on channels that adults watch.
Posted by AlexiaANDRobert[/QUOTE]

Hah! I think adults need it more than children honestly! My 13-year-old cousin's facebook is on total lockdown but the same can't be said for my older friends ...

Have you seen this? <a href="http://youropenbook.org/">http://youropenbook.org/</a> You can run searches of all people who have public facebook walls. See who's PUBLICLY talking about skipping work or taking a pregnancy test or any number of other salacious things. :O

[Deleted User] · June 2010

People who say "grrr" in their posts to express frustration or annoyance. I can't explain why, but this really, really irritates me and gives me the impression of the person trying to do a poor imitation of a tiger.

kikibaby · June 2010

RAWR!!!

Is that a better tiger impression?

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