Okay this is an unusual situation. I have been separated for over 3 years. Divorce papers were filed in Oct. of 08. My ex was supposed to sign them 3 times now and hasn't. The last time being last month. Divorce was supposed to be final on Valentine's Day appropriately enough. Last Oct. I became engaged. I know this is putting the cart before the proverbial horse but I am an older bride (47) and I know this is the man I want to spend the rest of my life with. The wedding is set for Sept. 4 of this year. I was confident the divorce would be final in time for the wedding. Now I'm not so sure. Everything is booked and my fiance and I have talked about what if...We decided to go forward with the ceremony although we may not be legally married and then once the divorce is final get married legally at the court house. Are we nuts? Has anyone else heard of someone having to do this???