ok so this is going to be a newbie question but my FMIL is hosting a bridal shower for me and I have no clue what to expect out of it except that she is cooking TONS of her amazing food (she is a great cook) decorating her house with flowers, and inviting anybody I tell her to invite plus most of her friends. I want to be prepared to help her if she asks me what else she should do for it (very very possible) So basically Im wondering what usually goes on at a bridal shower and what we should try to do or not do to make it special. Again this is just in case she asks for my opionion or help.