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S/O What's your number?

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  • AudgiePodgeAudgiePodge member
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    edited December 2011
    The last one should be 21+
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  • Elle1036Elle1036 member
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    edited December 2011
    Oh this thread is not good for the nosy heifer in me.
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    Umm. Dare I ask... number of what?
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  • Bec20Bec20 member
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    edited December 2011

    I'll go first.  Just one for me and one for my boyfriend.  Kyle and I starting dating in high school and were each others first relationships, so it's only to be expected.

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    does the person who voted 19-20 care to share? 

    I voted 1-2 with 1

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  • heyimbrenheyimbren member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_whats-number?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:754d8ca2-d5ff-4c49-9cb9-74a7811e1f8fPost:2cdfb490-c2a1-41f7-9a09-8e9442887dcf">Re: S/O What's your number?</a>:
    [QUOTE]Oh this thread is not good for the nosy heifer in me.
    Posted by Elle1036[/QUOTE]

    HA that's exactly what I was thinking Elle.

    Notice how every couple of weeks the topics on here will cumulate to a day where it's pretty much all about sex/sexual histories?
  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_whats-number?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:754d8ca2-d5ff-4c49-9cb9-74a7811e1f8fPost:de906f83-c37f-436d-bfb2-c86bbd33b549">Re: S/O What's your number?</a>:
    [QUOTE]Umm. Dare I ask... number of what?
    Posted by Narwhal[/QUOTE]

    <div>Sex partners I assumed. </div>

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  • Wrkn925Wrkn925 member
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    I'm sorry, what did you say?

    *la la la I can't hear you..."

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  • Elle1036Elle1036 member
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    edited December 2011
    @Bren -- lol yeah.  I like those days.  ;)

    @Wrkn -- *snort*


    I voted 1-2.  For the record, though, it's 2.
  • AudgiePodgeAudgiePodge member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_whats-number?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:754d8ca2-d5ff-4c49-9cb9-74a7811e1f8fPost:53e9708d-3c87-4771-ae54-4ecde3cc3789">Re: S/O What's your number?</a>:
    [QUOTE]does the person who voted 19-20 care to share?  I voted 1-2 with 1
    Posted by SeaTea02[/QUOTE]



    Hi!
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  • HeartOverMindHeartOverMind member
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    edited December 2011
    I voted 1-2. BF is my only one. He had one serious relationship before me, but it ended a few years before we even met. So I'm one and BF is two.
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  • AudgiePodgeAudgiePodge member
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    Yes Narwhal, Sea is correct. Elle, I'm nosey too. I knew I wasn't the only one!
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  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_whats-number?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:754d8ca2-d5ff-4c49-9cb9-74a7811e1f8fPost:53e9708d-3c87-4771-ae54-4ecde3cc3789">Re: S/O What's your number?</a>:
    [QUOTE]does the person who voted 19-20 care to share?  I voted 1-2 with 1
    Posted by SeaTea02[/QUOTE]

    lol i agree
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_whats-number?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:754d8ca2-d5ff-4c49-9cb9-74a7811e1f8fPost:61715a89-9f1c-4dfb-a13e-f1219a68c3b9">Re: S/O What's your number?</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: S/O What's your number? : Hi!
    Posted by AudgiePodge[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>Yo go, girl! </div><div>
    </div><div>someone close to me IRL is 50+ 

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  • heyimbrenheyimbren member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_whats-number?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:754d8ca2-d5ff-4c49-9cb9-74a7811e1f8fPost:61715a89-9f1c-4dfb-a13e-f1219a68c3b9">Re: S/O What's your number?</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: S/O What's your number? : Hi!
    Posted by AudgiePodge[/QUOTE]

    I figured it was you, Audgie ;) I noticed the vote right after you posted it so it was an educated guess. I'm just happy to have guessed right!
  • CASK85CASK85 member
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    edited December 2011
    I replied 16-18. . . I'm pretty sure it is 16. I'm not really ashamed or anything. . . although somehow it seems like a kinda high number for this board. Another fun factoid, in this coming February it will be my 10 year anniversary of losing the ol' v-card (I'll be 26 and I was 16).
  • edited December 2011
    I have had like 8 or 9 BFs in various degrees of seriousness over my lifetime.  FI has only ever dated me.  :D

    ETA:  I didn't realize that this poll was sort of implying that I slept with all of them, because I slept with none of them!
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  • Bec20Bec20 member
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    I have a friend who is 19 and over the past 2 years has gone from being a virgin to 8+.  This is in addition to other everything-but partners.  I'm kind of shocked, especially when she doesn't want to get a pap and STI test. *shakes head sadly*
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_whats-number?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:754d8ca2-d5ff-4c49-9cb9-74a7811e1f8fPost:02e72254-1e69-470d-a9b1-aad69448344b">Re: S/O What's your number?</a>:
    [QUOTE]I have a friend who is 19 and over the past 2 years has gone from being a virgin to 8+.  This is in addition to other everything-but partners.  I'm kind of shocked, especially when she doesn't want to get a pap and STI test. *shakes head sadly*
    Posted by Bec20[/QUOTE]
    Now that is just stupid. Have all the sex you want, but go to the gyno and get checked every year. Tell your friend a microbiologist you know on the internet says she's taking risks with her health that she shouldn't be. lol
  • heyimbrenheyimbren member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_whats-number?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:754d8ca2-d5ff-4c49-9cb9-74a7811e1f8fPost:10a4f854-eb8f-4241-97f7-d366b46a3bb8">Re: S/O What's your number?</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: S/O What's your number? : Now that is just stupid. Have all the sex you want, but go to the gyno and get checked every year. Tell your friend <strong>a microbiologist you know on the internet</strong> says she's taking risks with her health that she shouldn't be. lol
    Posted by cschiano[/QUOTE]

    But that just makes you imaginary ;) you're not real!
  • calindicalindi member
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    edited December 2011
    12.  Each and every one was its own experience, and I don't regret any of them, believe it or not.

    Let's see... included in there we've got my first love, one romantic Spanish poet, the sexy Spanish soccer player who didn't speak any English, a gorgeous tall Australian pub crawl leader at my hostel in Scotland, and my amazing macho Marine.

    I've had a good life Laughing  And I found the absolute BEST guy ever (in so many ways) and I'm happy to stick with him!

    BF's number is 13, so we're right in the same ball park.

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  • motoLynmotoLyn member
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    edited December 2011
    Voted, man that was a trip down memory lane trying to count. 
  • AudgiePodgeAudgiePodge member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_whats-number?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:754d8ca2-d5ff-4c49-9cb9-74a7811e1f8fPost:b43117a0-d551-4190-98f5-f401a6d66414">Re: S/O What's your number?</a>:
    [QUOTE]Voted, man that was a trip down memory lane trying to count. 
    Posted by motoLyn[/QUOTE]



    I hope it was a good trip :)
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_whats-number?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:754d8ca2-d5ff-4c49-9cb9-74a7811e1f8fPost:832ea7c2-d5a6-4187-ac1a-0eee1e365263">Re: S/O What's your number?</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: S/O What's your number? : I hope it was a good trip :)
    Posted by AudgiePodge[/QUOTE]

    A couple of bumps but overall it was fun :)
  • Elle1036Elle1036 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_whats-number?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:754d8ca2-d5ff-4c49-9cb9-74a7811e1f8fPost:0215fe64-37fd-4225-8f0a-ca1a072a9f7d">Re: S/O What's your number?</a>:
    [QUOTE]12.  Each and every one was its own experience, and I don't regret any of them, believe it or not. Let's see... included in there we've got my first love, one romantic Spanish poet, the sexy Spanish soccer player who didn't speak any English, a gorgeous tall Australian pub crawl leader at my hostel in Scotland, and my amazing macho Marine. I've had a good life   And I found the absolute BEST guy ever (in so many ways) and I'm happy to stick with him! BF's number is 13, so we're right in the same ball park.
    Posted by calindi[/QUOTE]


    I'm oddly jealous of the diversity here.
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_whats-number?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:754d8ca2-d5ff-4c49-9cb9-74a7811e1f8fPost:39efe9bc-08e5-4620-9a87-0f1b4f2dac8e">Re: S/O What's your number?</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: S/O What's your number? : I'm oddly jealous of the diversity here.
    Posted by Elle1036[/QUOTE]

    My parents were convinced I'd end up with Spanish-speaking babies someday (i.e. married to the Spanish soccer player - we had quite a fun, exciting, and sweet fling that only really ended since I was leaving - or another Spaniard).

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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_whats-number?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:754d8ca2-d5ff-4c49-9cb9-74a7811e1f8fPost:39efe9bc-08e5-4620-9a87-0f1b4f2dac8e">Re: S/O What's your number?</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: S/O What's your number? : I'm oddly jealous of the diversity here.
    Posted by Elle1036[/QUOTE]
    Haha! I'm a little jealous too - I'm pretty sure that all of mine have been white boys, most of them from upstate NY, no less. Luckily BF is from CO, so at least I've branched out there. . . 
  • Wrkn925Wrkn925 member
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    OK, now that others have shared, I'm not as scared. 

    BF makes a baker's dozen. 

    Chiano, I remember my 'anniversarry' too. 

    Seriously, when you all started the novel month thing, it inspired me.  I wrote a quick outline for the stupid book I mentioned earlier. 

    I stopped, because it was hilarious, but sounding HORRIBLE, and then we ate Chinese for lunch, and my fortune cookie said: "Be brave enough to live creatively."  So I think I might try it again.
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  • Bec20Bec20 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_whats-number?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:754d8ca2-d5ff-4c49-9cb9-74a7811e1f8fPost:10a4f854-eb8f-4241-97f7-d366b46a3bb8">Re: S/O What's your number?</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: S/O What's your number? : Now that is just stupid. Have all the sex you want, but go to the gyno and get checked every year. Tell your friend a microbiologist you know on the internet says she's taking risks with her health that she shouldn't be. lol
    Posted by cschiano[/QUOTE]

    I totally agree with you on that.  I wouldn't care if she was always safe (condoms for sex, but she doesn't seem too picky with oral) and if she got tested.  I tried to tell her that I've gotten them done twice, even though I've only ever done anything with my BF who has also even done anything with me.  I told her that while its somewhat awkward, it's not that bad.  She doesn't believe me.  I might have to tell her that somebody on the internet told her she has to.  I mean, who doesn't trust the internet?
  • CASK85CASK85 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_whats-number?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:754d8ca2-d5ff-4c49-9cb9-74a7811e1f8fPost:116ee5e6-1673-4781-9936-7e56a78c60af">Re: S/O What's your number?</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: S/O What's your number? : I totally agree with you on that.  I wouldn't care if she was always safe (condoms for sex, but she doesn't seem too picky with oral) and if she got tested.  I tried to tell her that I've gotten them done twice, even though I've only ever done anything with my BF who has also even done anything with me.  I told her that while its somewhat awkward, it's not that bad.  She doesn't believe me.  I might have to tell her that somebody on the internet told her she has to.  I mean, who doesn't trust the internet?
    Posted by Bec20[/QUOTE]
    <div>If she's not mature enough or comfortable enough with her body to have a professional look at her lady parts, I doubt she should be showing them all around town. </div><div>
    </div><div>All joking aside, if you want/need word/fact ammunition to send her way, let me know via PM. I'm a big proponent of women's health, and like to dispense info to (even strangers) women to keep them from suffering for their reproductive choices and becoming statistics. </div>
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