Here's my dilemma.. I have wanted mahogany chiavari chairs for the last 6 months. I think they are soo absolutely gorgeous and rented them.. then last week decided to cancel the reservation and go with white chair covers because we couldn't afford the chairs and the white covers were reasonable. My mother in law who's a stylist says the white chair covers would take away from my pretty white dress and we shouldnt get the chair covers.. she said if I didnt like the regular banquet chairs the way they were that we should just rent the chiavais again for our 10-9-11 wedding.but me personally I dont want to ask them for anymore money $400 for the chairs.
They gave my fiancee and I a 100 thousand dollar loan for a business we successfully opened and we are stil paying them back. My mother in law also went very overboard for this wedding.. tons and tons of gorgeous high tall flower centerpieces, 400 pastries a lavish wedding cake, etc etc..
We dont have the money for the chairs and i dont want to ask her even though she said if I wanted them she would get them. should I JUST PUT THE DREAM OF MY CHAIRS ASIDE AND JUST ENJOY EVERYTHING ELSE ABOUT MY WEDDING? If I had those chairs it would be my dream wedding everything I have ever wanted. and if i dont get them then it would still be pretty but I would be thinking about how the chairs would have looked on my wedding day...
sorry for the long post.. I just feel bad for wanting the chairs sooo bad even after all the beautiful stuff my mother in law has done for me