Since we are moving to CA in two weeks (yikes), we can't really take gifts on the plane when I come home for the bridal shower and then the wedding. My FMI told me that she will spread the word that we would like gift cards and money, and told me to let my mom and step-mom know that too. Is that good etiquette? I know that we have talked about this before, I just didn't really pay as much attention (sorry), because it didn't apply to me now.