Okay, I probably just need to be talked down from the edge of BSC...but here goes my rant.
My BF and I have discussed many times that we don't want to have a long engagement. But people ask me all the dang time when we are getting engaged. I'm sick of my friends asking, I'm sick of my parents friends continually asking my parents when I'm getting a ring. Its so annoying that I've thought of maybe having a long engagement.
But then I know we will just be constantly asked when the wedding is so I guess that will get just as annoying. But why the heck do people have to bug me about it all the time! I know my friends are getting married and thats awesome for them, I'm truely happy for them but just because BF and I want to wait until we are financially stable doesn't mean we aren't in a serious relationship.
So I guess my only question is are there even any pros to getting engaged sooner and having a long engagement?