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Does anyone object...

SamiJoeBSamiJoeB
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To a confessions/rants thread?  I feel like we haven't done one in a little bit...


Here's my rant: One of my friends from HS had a baby yesterday.  It kind of drives me crazy because she's blown up my FB feed with ridiculous status updates.  For starters, I realize that the first bath, and first diaper change are a big deal to parents, but personally.. it's not my kid, so I don't care, nor do I want to see pictures of those particular activities. Also, for the love of grammar, capitalize your kids name!!  He's a person, he has a name, and it should start with a capital letter. 

My confession: This might be a bit flameworthy, but I think part of what freaks me out about having kids right now is that like ... one minute it's just the two of you, and then BAM! out pops a baby and it's the three of you.  I'm sure I'll feel differently in a few years, but then again... What if I don't? What if I don't ever get the fever again?
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_anyone-object?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:8bfb35b9-0b11-42a0-8a69-a96f5a9d483fPost:0691f08d-2611-4643-88eb-c87b3b2b00d7">Does anyone object...</a>:
    [QUOTE]My confession: This might be a bit flameworthy, but I think part of what freaks me out about having kids right now is that like ... one minute it's just the two of you, and then BAM! out pops a baby and it's the three of you.  I'm sure I'll feel differently in a few years, but then again... What if I don't? What if I don't ever get the fever again?
    Posted by SamiJoeB[/QUOTE]

    Don't stress - if you don't get the fever, then perhaps you don't really want to have kids.  If you do want to have kids, you'll either get the fever or make a rational decision that you want to have a baby (or an accident, but same end result).  No matter what, if you get pregnant, you usually have about 9 months to get used to the idea!  It doesn't happen overnight.

    I kind of feel that way about the dog.  It's always just been the two of us, and now we have this sweet puppy, and that did happen overnight!  I am just amazed that yesterday morning we woke up just the two of us, and now she'll be part of our family for hopefully the next 10+ years.  It was kind of overwhelming to think about how we now have to take her needs into consideration and also keep in mind that she needs to be socialized with young children so when we have kids one day she won't freak.  It feels like a really big step.

    My confession is that I'm terrified that I'll ruin the dog.  I've read tons of articles and books about training my dog, and most of them talk about how the first few months are so crucial and how each experience can permanently mark the dog's personality, good or bad.  So like the panic attack last night in the crate makes me scared that the dog will never like the crate and will have separation anxiety forever. Don't worry - I will not give up on this dog and taking her back to the shelter would never be an option, I just want her to be happy and well adjusted, and I'm definitely scared about screwing her up.  I'm guessing that's normal?  At least I'm trying to learn how to do things right, yes?  I hope!

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  • crownsuperstarcrownsuperstar member
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    Vent/Confession/Annoyed/Worried-  I girl I worked with just had a baby.  For starters she wanted a boy and when she found out she was having a girl she cried for three days because this baby girl didn't fit into her plan.  Any way fast forward and she was put on bed rest for high blood pressure but insisted that she was going to work any way even after her doctor told her that she and/or the baby could die.  She didn't need to work since she has sick & vacation time.  Her total disregard for her baby's health just got to me.  Well her water broke and the baby came early.  Thank goodness the baby is fine.  I am so worried that H and I will not be able to have children that a total disregard for what the doctors said to her just really got to me. 

    Sami- not flameworthy.  I think about it all the time and how a child changes everything.  It is just not the two of you anymore.  We are going to try when H gets back but in the back of my mind, I think ok we will be moving (pretty sure of that), trying for a baby and then looking for doctors and all that goes along with that and of course H's rejustment to "life." I just think that is a lot to have all at once, you know what I mean?

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  • BellyB11BellyB11
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    Rant: This morning I got out of bed with an awful headache and felt like I was going to pass out. This has happened every once in a while for a few years. So anyways, my sister was at my house and called my mom and said that I looked really pale and feel like I was going to pass out and I had a headache. My mom then calls me and tells me she's worried about my blood sugar. Apparently I have low blood sugar but never actually knew it.

    Confession: This makes me pretty nerves. I talked to a co worker at work today about it and he asked me if anyone in my family had diabetes. I said not that i'm aware of, but i'm not possitive. Now i'm just a little bit worried. Although I know it is controlable and all that, I just really don't want to add this on my health issues.
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  • crownsuperstarcrownsuperstar member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_anyone-object?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:13Discussion:8bfb35b9-0b11-42a0-8a69-a96f5a9d483fPost:1e219352-91ee-4b2a-b29f-285f5142a688">Re: Does anyone object...</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Does anyone object... : Don't stress - if you don't get the fever, then perhaps you don't really want to have kids.  If you do want to have kids, you'll either get the fever or make a rational decision that you want to have a baby (or an accident, but same end result).  No matter what, if you get pregnant, you usually have about 9 months to get used to the idea!  It doesn't happen overnight. I kind of feel that way about the dog.  It's always just been the two of us, and now we have this sweet puppy, and that did happen overnight!  I am just amazed that yesterday morning we woke up just the two of us, and now she'll be part of our family for hopefully the next 10+ years.  It was kind of overwhelming to think about how we now have to take her needs into consideration and also keep in mind that she needs to be socialized with young children so when we have kids one day she won't freak.  It feels like a really big step. My confession is that I'm terrified that I'll ruin the dog.  I've read tons of articles and books about training my dog, and most of them talk about how the first few months are so crucial and how each experience can permanently mark the dog's personality, good or bad.  So like the panic attack last night in the crate makes me scared that the dog will never like the crate and will have separation anxiety forever. Don't worry - I will not give up on this dog and taking her back to the shelter would never be an option, I just want her to be happy and well adjusted, and I'm definitely scared about screwing her up.  I'm guessing that's normal?  At least I'm trying to learn how to do things right, yes?  I hope!
    Posted by calindi[/QUOTE]

    Don't worry.  I felt like that with Roxie.  Treats + create = love for her.  She is food driven.  Also have you tried something with your sents on it.  Like a shirt of yours or FI's?  That helped me.
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  • AmandaSC1988AmandaSC1988 member
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    Sami- I sort of feel the same way, I love kids...but at this point in my life I just want to hog my FI all to myself. I'm thinking after we are in the same place for a while we might want to have kids...the newness will wear off and I'll want to add something else... 

    Rant: If you watch college football you night have noticed that both OkState and OU both lost (pretty embarrassing too) this weekend. I don't really care... I mean it is football, it's a fun game, but it isn't my life. 

    Friday night after OSU lost OSU fans on my FB were all up in arms about "OU fans saying disrespectful things" and how they had lost a lot that day and didn't want to hear it from OU's "mean" fans (I hope you read that in 'whiney bitch voice' because that is what it is intended to be read as). I have a lot of OU students as my friends, I didn't  see ANY mean comments about the game, if anything most of the people were annoyed/sad because it ruined our chance of going to the NC.

     On Saturday after OU lost, those same OSU fans were the FIRST people to comment about how "it serves OU right, they deserve it". I was pretty surprised that those people did exactly what they were bitching about the night before....  That shows a lot of class for those 4 people. I get that it is a rivalry, but it is a little hypocritical of them.

    Confession: I'm going to be THAT person in my exam today. The annoying person that is coughing and sniffling. I'm also going to be that person in my dance class... Ughh! I wish I could just stay home in bed!

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  • BinxRoseBinxRose member
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    Rant: I'm really angry and worked up about those peaceful, passive students that were pepper-sprayed at a CA college. It was excessive force, plain and simple. Confession: I am hating being here in VA more and more every day. Most of the wives are just plain mean (in a passive aggressive way). And the few I like are busy with kids. I just want my FI to be done already so we can both be back in our home state with our friends and family.
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  • RethanyRethany
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    Rant:  I'm looking into Physician Assistant school.  The only program offered in the area is at the college I got my Associates degree from.  They have a post-baccalaureate program but aren't accepting applications.  I can apply as a freshman but that's 5 years.  Which means, if I do it, I will have gone to school for 7 years.  Meaning, I might as well be a doctor.

    FI is all for me doing it and says he will transfer his GI bill to me after we're married.  He has about two (academic) years left on it.  But I just don't think I want to be in school for 5 more years.  I have no idea what to do.

    Confession: I have a really tough time pretending to like people that I really don't.  I try to be nice to a majority of people but if someone annoys me or is rude to me, I just ignore them completely.  I really don't like that I do it, but I guess that is how I would rather deal with people (not at all) than to be fake.

    I don't know if any of that makes sense.
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  • crownsuperstarcrownsuperstar member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_anyone-object?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:13Discussion:8bfb35b9-0b11-42a0-8a69-a96f5a9d483fPost:b46a2832-cddf-47ad-9f57-97ecd55dee37">Re: Does anyone object...</a>:
    [QUOTE]Rant:  I'm looking into Physician Assistant school.  The only program offered in the area is at the college I got my Associates degree from.  They have a post-baccalaureate program but aren't accepting applications.  I can apply as a freshman but that's 5 years.  Which means, if I do it, I will have gone to school for 7 years.  Meaning, I might as well be a doctor. FI is all for me doing it and says he will transfer his GI bill to me after we're married.  He has about two (academic) years left on it.  But I just don't think I want to be in school for 5 more years.  I have no idea what to do. <strong>Confession: I have a really tough time pretending to like people that I really don't.  I try to be nice to a majority of people but if someone annoys me or is rude to me, I just ignore them completely.  I really don't like that I do it, but I guess that is how I would rather deal with people (not at all) than to be fake. I don't know if any of that makes sense.
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    I do that all of the time. Not to mention that you can tell my thoughts just by looking at my face as my expressions give it away. HA Opps />
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  • LetsHikeTodayLetsHikeToday member
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    Binx- Where is VA are you?

    Confession- I'm in the two week wait to see if we could be pregnant and it's. killing. me. I'm terrible at waiting. I have to wait about 6-9 more days.

    Also- I've unsubsidized to people on facebook who post all about their babies. I'm insanely jealous and I'm not ashamed to say it.
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  • LetsHikeTodayLetsHikeToday member
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    Can I add that I wish I had this type of board to discuss trying to get pregnant with? The nest and bump are too big and it's just too many people for me. I wish I had more people to talk about it with. I hold it in all day.
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  • ZeldakinsZeldakins member
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    Binx: One of my roommates is the same way....passive aggressive. The day I decided to confront her about it she ran away. LITERALLY. Now she's moving out...and I have to say that I feel a little guilty. I just don't understand how she can be that way. If I hold things in for too long I just feel like I'm going to explode.

    Confession: I'm really hoping that when my SO comes home, the surprise that he's been talking about is an engagement ring. *crosses fingers* XD
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  • amh04amh04
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    edited December 2011
    Rant:I'm really freakin tired of work. I've been busting my tail end without a workday off in a year and some change and I'm just exhausted. Not to mention I've been given two HUGE priority things to work on and then I get a PO and a quote request from a client I mainly work on. Ugh. And I have two working days left of the week (thank god! I dont have to work thanksgiving like i did last year).

    Confession: I don't know how much I really want to be in KY this week. I get so stressed about taking Jade there. She's great on car rides, but she doesn't like being outside of her element - or I don't like it - not sure which one yet. Not to mention, it'll be the first time I'll see the FSIL's since before we were engaged, and after the 'blowout' so.. I will be drinking plentyyyy of wine to deal with this.
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  • BinxRoseBinxRose member
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    Sami- Sometimes I get really bad baby fever. But sometimes I feel the same way, and my nanny/babysitting jobs make it worse. I mean, I like my jobs and the kids, but sometimes (especially when they are crying/fighting/sassy) all I can think is "oh man, this is what it's going to be like 24/7 when I have my own kids, and I won't even be paid for it." But then I hope you feel different when it's your own kids. Good thing I'm only 23 and have plenty of time. Hike- I'm in Norfolk/ VA Beach
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_anyone-object?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:13Discussion:8bfb35b9-0b11-42a0-8a69-a96f5a9d483fPost:4024a6e7-8366-4a2e-ab7b-d065d31a3718">Re: Does anyone object...</a>:
    [QUOTE]Can I add that I wish I had this type of board to discuss trying to get pregnant with? The nest and bump are too big and it's just too many people for me. I wish I had more people to talk about it with. I hold it in all day.
    Posted by LetsHikeToday[/QUOTE]

    I'm sorry Hike :( I wish I could be of more help but obviously I don't truly understand what you're going through. Are there any other sites similar to thebump out there? Edit: have you tried babycenter.com?
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  • crownsuperstarcrownsuperstar member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_anyone-object?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:13Discussion:8bfb35b9-0b11-42a0-8a69-a96f5a9d483fPost:8edef74d-b794-4778-9ac8-ef49d930a967">Re: Does anyone object...</a>:
    [QUOTE]Binx- Where is VA are you? Confession- I'm in the two week wait to see if we could be pregnant and it's. killing. me. I'm terrible at waiting. I have to wait about 6-9 more days. <strong>Also- I've unsubsidized to people on facebook who post all about their babies. I'm insanely jealous and I'm not ashamed to say it.
    </strong>Posted by LetsHikeToday[/QUOTE]


    I have done this not because I am jealous but I really don't care that their baby pooped in the potty for the first time, smiled or whatever their Super Baby has done that day, hour, minute or second!
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  • SamiJoeBSamiJoeB
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_anyone-object?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:8bfb35b9-0b11-42a0-8a69-a96f5a9d483fPost:4024a6e7-8366-4a2e-ab7b-d065d31a3718">Re: Does anyone object...</a>:
    [QUOTE]Can I add that I wish I had this type of board to discuss trying to get pregnant with? The nest and bump are too big and it's just too many people for me. I wish I had more people to talk about it with. I hold it in all day.
    Posted by LetsHikeToday[/QUOTE]

    Hike, this makes me sad! You can always PM me if you need to let it all out!  I'm pretty sure that I speak for everyone on the board, we love you and we're here for you.  Even if none of us (that I'm aware of.. I'm sorry!) are TTC, I'm sure at some point a lot of us will be, and who knows, maybe something you mention, could help one of us!!  I think a lot of my lack of baby fever is because my parents had a LOT of trouble conceiving me.  (They adopted my sister when they'd be married for almost 4 years after not being able to conceive, and then I was a "surprise" in their early 40's), so I feel like as long as I'm not trying I don't have to face the fact that it might be really hard for me.  I think I'm rambling.. but bottom line.. We're here for you!
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  • calindicalindi member
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    Aw, Hike, I'll keep my fingers crossed for you!  I'm sure you'll be a Mom before too long - I have a sneaking suspicion you'll have a baby right around when I get married.  That won't be too long, right?  And I know I'm not trying to get pregnant, but I'm happy to listen if you want to rant ever.  You can shoot me a PM or a Facebook message.  I can be a good listener and just be a supportive shoulder to cry on or bitch to about stuff.  As much as I sometimes like to pontificate, I can shut up and listen and just be there!

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  • crownsuperstarcrownsuperstar member
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    Ditto what Sami and Cal said.  I know this is very har for you Hike.  If you need to talk or vent or whatever I am always here.  I worry about this all of the time. 
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  • LetsHikeTodayLetsHikeToday member
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    This is why I love you girls! Thank you for being so sweet. I'm actually in really good spirits and daily, my mood is great. I just need to not have those posts on Facebook. I don't want to get my hopes up but I'm really hopeful for this month. I need to wait a few days before testing. I actually tested this morning but KNEW it was too early. I'm crazy like that though! I appreciate all of your support. It's hard on the getting pregnant boards because thre are so many freakin people. It's hard to become a "reg". Also after I posted my confession, I stopped at CVs on the way home. The lady in front of me was pregnant (she knew the guy behind me and said she has 2 more months). She bought 2 packs of cigarettes. I saw her in her car after and her son, with a high school letter jacket on was opening the pack. So she either smokes while pregnant OR buys them for her underage son. She can get pregnant??
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  • ZeldakinsZeldakins member
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    Hike: Oh my goodness. That just ticks me off. :/ Irresponsible parents. I'm so glad that you're day is going well though and I'll be keeping my fingers crossed along with everyone else. :)
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  • ZimsgirlZimsgirl
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    So this is kind of a vent/what do you think I should do?
    A while back before we had the appt to get bridesmaid dresses FMIL tried to invite herself and her daughter. The store is an hour and a half away, my mom's SUV will be full, and none of us like her. I haven't talked to her since (not on purpose just because we live a few hours away) and our appt is this Saturday. She is doing their Thanksgiving Friday night because we have a bigger family and she said my parents could do their dinner Thursday. How do I avoid bringing it up/I don't want her to go without telling FI I don't want her to go? Our car will be full and it's something I want to do with my girls and my mom. Also one of my bridesmaids coming in from Chicago on Friday night most likely so I won't stay late at their house. Thoughts?
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  • IrishcurlsIrishcurls member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_anyone-object?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:8bfb35b9-0b11-42a0-8a69-a96f5a9d483fPost:f6a1fc98-9cb6-4399-a1d9-7d457eb07297">Re: Does anyone object...</a>:
    [QUOTE]So this is kind of a vent/what do you think I should do? A while back before we had the appt to get bridesmaid dresses FMIL tried to invite herself and her daughter. The store is an hour and a half away, my mom's SUV will be full, and none of us like her. I haven't talked to her since (not on purpose just because we live a few hours away) and our appt is this Saturday. She is doing their Thanksgiving Friday night because we have a bigger family and she said my parents could do their dinner Thursday. How do I avoid bringing it up/I don't want her to go without telling FI I don't want her to go? Our car will be full and it's something I want to do with my girls and my mom. Also one of my bridesmaids coming in from Chicago on Friday night most likely so I won't stay late at their house. Thoughts?
    Posted by Zimsgirl[/QUOTE]
    Hm, well you dont have to bring anything up. Make sure you tell your FI that you dont want to talk about the wedding too much, the family is all together and you want to spend the time with them blah blah. Then, IF she brings it up, I would just say "Oh I didn't know you were planning on coming, because we hadn't discussed it. Do you have the address? We're meeting there at 2pm." And then if she shows up, she shows up. I think it's ruder of her to invite herself but you can't accommodate them in your car so leave it up to her to put in that much effort. And I know you guys have a rocky relationship but some of this stuff might help it....I know it took going to look at paint swatches with my MIL before I felt like she wasn't side eyeing everything I said. 
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    Hike, I just got my best bud pregnant (did the majority of her injections for IVF), so I'm totes down to listen. And MN is really good for that, it just takes a while to get comfortable over there. 
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  • ZimsgirlZimsgirl
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_anyone-object?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:8bfb35b9-0b11-42a0-8a69-a96f5a9d483fPost:c23f2cde-5d48-42ca-8b4c-9b44fb9ca455">Re: Does anyone object...</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Does anyone object... : Hm, well you dont have to bring anything up. Make sure you tell your FI that you dont want to talk about the wedding too much, the family is all together and you want to spend the time with them blah blah. Then, IF she brings it up, I would just say "Oh I didn't know you were planning on coming, because we hadn't discussed it. Do you have the address? We're meeting there at 2pm." And then if she shows up, she shows up. I think it's ruder of her to invite herself but you can't accommodate them in your car so leave it up to her to put in that much effort. And I know you guys have a rocky relationship but some of this stuff might help it....I know it took going to look at paint swatches with my MIL before I felt like she wasn't side eyeing everything I said. 
    Posted by Irishcurls[/QUOTE]
    Yeah it's just hard to be excited about things then have her give her not so nice and unwanted opinion. Especially when I've picked out the dresses and ordered my dress so I don't want her feedback lol
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  • IrishcurlsIrishcurls member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_anyone-object?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:8bfb35b9-0b11-42a0-8a69-a96f5a9d483fPost:f542f213-6770-42f9-b1eb-150479410a0b">Re: Does anyone object...</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Does anyone object... : Yeah it's just hard to be excited about things then have her give her not so nice and unwanted opinion. Especially when I've picked out the dresses and ordered my dress so I don't want her feedback lol
    Posted by Zimsgirl[/QUOTE]
    I totally get that, especially if everything is a negative opinion. But that's almost better, if they've already been picked out and your girls like them and everything--all you do is deflect. "Oh Mrs. Zim, I'm not that concerned about their knees being cold. We just loved the color, dont you?!" 
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_anyone-object?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:8bfb35b9-0b11-42a0-8a69-a96f5a9d483fPost:20ad9bf9-ba02-47eb-99e4-7c036c4cdb3f">Re: Does anyone object...</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Does anyone object... : I totally get that, especially if everything is a negative opinion. But that's almost better, if they've already been picked out and your girls like them and everything--all you do is deflect. "Oh Mrs. Zim, I'm not that concerned about their knees being cold. We just loved the color, dont you?!" 
    Posted by Irishcurls[/QUOTE]
    Haha true. It was really annoying when she was making comments about our photographer package. She did my senior pictures and is amazing. This is our package:<div><div>Gold - $2050</div><div>•<span style="white-space:pre;" class="Apple-tab-span"> </span>Engagement session </div><div>•<span style="white-space:pre;" class="Apple-tab-span"> </span>Wedding Day coverage from Preparation thru Reception formalities* </div><div>•<span style="white-space:pre;" class="Apple-tab-span"> </span>Set of post-production (edited) wedding images on DVD in high resolution </div><div>•<span style="white-space:pre;" class="Apple-tab-span"> </span>10x10 30 page Leather Bound wedding album ($795 value)</div><div><span style="white-space:pre;" class="Apple-tab-span"> </span>o (Upgrade to a 40 page album for only $195) </div><div>•<span style="white-space:pre;" class="Apple-tab-span"> </span>Proof CD of all wedding images </div><div>•<span style="white-space:pre;" class="Apple-tab-span"> </span>Online image gallery for viewing and sharing your wedding images</div><div>•<span style="white-space:pre;" class="Apple-tab-span"> </span>Free portrait session for first baby (you will receive a gift certificate)</div></div><div>
    </div><div>There's so much and the deposit was $400. Like that's such a good package and price!</div>
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  • LetsHikeTodayLetsHikeToday member
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    edited December 2011
    Thanks Stan. I might have to take you up on the offer. I sometimes need an ear to listen. I appreciate it. :-)
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  • shan87shan87
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    edited December 2011
    Okay so I was doing well, but tonight I hit a low for missing H. I have since starting eating anything and everything in sight. Someone give me a viritual slap and "put down the carmel, choc bars!" LoL
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  • IrishcurlsIrishcurls member
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    Oh Shan, I'm sorry youre missing H! **slap!!** Drink a big glass of water, wait 15 minutes, and then decide if you realllly want to eat something. At which point, you may. Laughing
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  • shan87shan87
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_anyone-object?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:8bfb35b9-0b11-42a0-8a69-a96f5a9d483fPost:6affa096-02ea-4ca8-b827-e39aaedb7918">Re: Does anyone object...</a>:
    [QUOTE]Oh Shan, I'm sorry youre missing H! **slap!!** Drink a big glass of water, wait 15 minutes, and then decide if you realllly want to eat something. At which point, you may. 
    Posted by Irishcurls[/QUOTE]

    haha thanks! I partially blame my mom's bomb diggy bars she made.
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